For me it's that they needlessly centralise the internet, and that's their goal too.
Suddenly one data centre goes down and the whole internet will too.
And data centres do go down, one of Google's most recent outages happened in an entire region and they were unable to badge into the building because that also relied on Google infrastructure.
It's a great idea and in a way it's already being done with those survey companies and stuff.
The thing is, what you propose needs to be backed by strong privacy laws. Consumer protections and legislation that mandates the deletion of data once the need for it expires. Basically, none of this should happen without a EU style GDPR in the respective country.
Youre both young, be safe, responsible and do whatever you want.
Honestly, I've got no objections to that age gap myself. It does quite depend on what type of people you are.
I've had a mate date a girl who was still dealing with high school drama and going out for drinks for the first time and I was kinda like "holy shit you really did snatch get straight out of high school". That's my issue with it though, maturity levels.
At the same time I had friends who both married and moved out at 18.
The numbers being different alone mean nothing to me.
At 25 I was dating to find out who my wife would be, if that's you and she has a problem with it... Well yeah.
This is going to be controversial, but if I was a user of these three scummy sites what you say above isn't the hill I'm willing to die on or care about.
However I have half a dozen domains, I could quite easily add one or two more for dumb shit like this if I wanted to.
The free market is supposed to be about competition, that's why basically every industry in the US is made up of 3-5 mega corps that collude together to fuck Americans.
Insurance industry is like a 500m sprint where every runner has agreed to only walk. Hence nobody has better service, no innovation, costs are high and customers lose out.
Yeah and they all work on Linux.
The ones that don't can get fucked.