If you want to see my pusswatcha, dress like men in hair metal bands from the 1980s.

People should do what they are comfortable with, but yes, if a guy wants to attract women, this is definitely a way to get what he wants.

I was part of the alternative scene and I also thought the goth-boy aesthetic was very attractive. All the girls did. To me, the most attractive thing a man could do to his appearance was to let his hair grow long. Like past the shoulders long.

Didn't have to put on make up and jewelry. Just have long hair and you could be fat or skinny, pretty or ugly. Didn't fucking matter. I'd look. If Henry Cavill walked down the street next to a nerdy guy with long hair, I would look at the nerd everytime. If he wore band t-shirts and military boots, it was game over. Only way a guy could fuck it up for himself with me was if he started the nice guy routine or was so socially awkward he couldn't talk to a girl. I have experienced both. The latter was a full date where the guy didn't say a word to me once and I was the one who had walked 20 km to get to his place because he had social anxiety and couldn't leave his home. Poor guy. I hope he's doing better today.

Of course girl with a goth profile picture and spiders in her name thinks goth style is hot.
In the meanwhile my bald head and nike sweatpants attract eastern european girls like a lamp with moths. You catch what you fish for.

I wear black nail polish and skirts and still get zero pussy.

Same. Must be because I'm a woman, smh.
- I would think it would be easier, that being the case.
Okay, but how much dick do you get?

Nah man.. I'm good with my tshirt and shorts collection

I - a bloke - sometimes paint my nails. If they're still painted when I go to work you can guarantee I'll get a few comments from guys questioning whether they "should be worried" around me*. Meanwhile, the few women who work there think it's wonderful and have offered to do them properly for me. _ *they needn't be worried. My standards aren't that low

I'd be outright ostracised, casted out, spat on if I showed up with painted nails/eye shadow to work here in England
When guys ask if they should be worried around you, do they expect women to be worried around them?
- Yes. And women should be worried around them.

Yea im not expecting my wife to wear bra and make up and all those shit.

Beside weren't those hair rock idiots sexist loosers as well?

This is a parody soundgarden made of them lmao

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wX1Vo7A6i0&list=RD-wX1Vo7A6i0&start_radio=1

Guys: I want a goth girl with big boobs

Also guys: ew goth. GAY!

They just love goths.
Female goths: double attractive
Male goths: questions sexuality
- What about enby goths?

I DO COCAINE!

Best of both worlds: use black nail polish to get gay trans guy pussy

I'd be more interested in painting my claws if it didn't manage to smell so. Considring you're literally smearing it on your body to sit for several weeks, you'd think they'd have developed less toxic formulas that don't smell like you tipped over the entire Tamiya display at the hobby shop.

Nail polish typically uses acetone as its solvent, and despite smelling, acetone is something that humans naturally have low levels of in their blood, so slightly higher levels are pretty safe. Obviously, having exposure to large quantities is bad, but that isn't how nail polish is typically used.

I had a goth friend who would always get laid without much trouble. At some point he got a normal job and had to "become a normie", and I learned that it wasn't because he was a goth, it was because he was a complete asshole with women, and some women, for some reason, can't resist assholes.

When you say things like "some women can't resist assholes" it sounds like red pill rhetoric. A better way to say it might be like "some assholes prey on women's insecurities". Keep the focus on the person who is the problem, not the victims.
- A better way to say it might be like “some assholes prey on women’s insecurities”. Keep the focus on the person who is the problem, not the victims.
  idk I think that's needlessly condescending to women, not all of them dating assholes are victims, some just like assholes because they like asshole behavior because they're also an asshole.
- This also takes away agency from people. In fact, I am sure that there would be a way to diagnose every single relationship ever as a form of abuse in which someone takes advantage of someone else's something.
  Adults are responsible for their choices, and particularly in the case of "assholes", that is often associated with being assertive, dismissive and some people just like that kind of "I am the main character" features. Maybe there are even some deep rooted evolutionary reasons for that, I don't know. Anyway, painting anything as victim-oppressor dichotomy IMHO is nonsense.
- I keep the focus where I want, that doesn't change the asshole-victim situation, and I won't save anyone if I change the wording.
- When you say things like "some assholes prey on women's insecurities" it's incredibly condescending, especially when you consider that women can also be assholes.
  Like begets like. I've known too many couples where both of the people in the relationship are trash.
- It's not just preying on their insecurities. Everyone has insecurities, but not everyone will let you into their pants just for calling them a worthless piece of shit or something. The women in question must have some deeper issues. Because I also have a friend who demonstrated to me how you can just go on Tinder and write horrible shit to women and get surprisingly good results.
- That's just a loop like how people ask which came first.. hen or egg
Being an asshole implies confidence.
Women like confidence.
- Inexperience and young girls mistake being a dick with confidence
- implies confidence.
  nope. it implies a craven amount of insecurity.
  it says something though that so many people assume this, it's certainly not just you.
- Certain women like asshole confidence. Typically the type to write "I'm a bitch, deal with it" in their bios
- No. Hi. Asshole here; zero confidence.

This depends on the guy. Some can pull it off, others can't. I'm one of those who can't. If I put make up, I wouldn't look goth, I would look like a serial killer lol

It's not so much about looking "goth" but learning how to augment whatever natural attractiveness you've got and demonstrating a level of self-assuredness and self-awareness. Knowing what works for you is part of that.
"Goth" just happens to be a very bold and somewhat easier style to look decent. A more "nude" look is, counterintuitively, pretty difficult but there's almost no masculine individuals who wouldn't benefit from it.
I've met some very pretty serial killers. You do not look that good. Sorry.
Embrace that look and go juggalo!
- What is a juggalo?

Men at some point decided to abandon style, and the result has been rather tedious. BRING BACK STYLE, EVEN BOMBASTIC STYLE

I'm an early X'r, I lived through the 80's as a teen and young adult. Teal and pinks, shoulder pads, hair spray...
We had fun with style. I lived part in the US and Europe, Madrid in particular, during the "Movida" (look it up). We really dgaf.
With the years I slowly started to mute, to blend in.
I'm now back in dgaf territory, and I'm having fun!

been low key wanting to do Egyptian pharaoh shit for years but I work blue collar in hick country and don't dare until I can move out of the states

I was in Atlanta for the 2000 New Years celebration and I randomly bought a red and yellow zoot suit to wear, with matching shoes. I have NEVER IN MY LIFE gotten more attention from women than that night.
- bawler as hell tbh
- Did you have a riot? Did you throw back a bottle of beer?
Well, there's two ways that could go. You could be 'that we>rdo, mike i think' or 'pharoah mike'.
Build a mythology about why. Tie it into local values. You lost a bet and then liked it?
- bro I'm talking about queer-stomping throw Matt Shepard into the fence and kill him, country. the only way that's going is to a bad time. I like your idea, I'm just not trying it here

Prince will steal your girl, then steal her clothes, then steal someone else's girl in those clothes

Can confirm.

I've let several women do my make up and they're always super enthusiastic that I'm down for that.

It's SO hot. A man in touch with that side of himself is sexxxxxxxy.
- Top half, even the watch, all women's clothes from the thrift.
- I sometimes put a pink ribbon around my dick.
  Is that also sexy?
I want someone else to do make up for me but none of my friends know how to do make up ~~~ ): not a single one between the men and women and non binary

Way to share your kink, sis. Mines biting people with brains. Everyone’s unique.

kinky...
It's concerning that you had to clarify with brains
- Well I like to bite. And I like smart people. Maybe I am a zombie lmao.
It's the only kink I have. Nikki Sixx is clearly not a great person, but put him in some high heels and eye blacking, and I'll drop trou.
- I love it. Metalheads get me with their long hair at times.
I'm a sucker for Nike outfits

I do that but I only get 1 (one) pussy. It's my wife's, so it's plenty for me.

1 you can get infinite times is better than a million different pussies.
- That is one durable pussy in a very long lasting universe.
Upvote for this guy loving his wife very much, specifically. It really is plenty, isn't it?
(If I didn't have that point to make, this comment would have been a "that guy's wife's pussy is plenty for me as well" joke.)
1 × X = X × 1. One pussy multiple times is lots of pussy!

As others have said - this is not really how to get girls to be into you. This is one particular person's fetish. They like goth-y, androgenous guys.

If you are a goth-y, androgenous guy, and you have wanted to wear black eyeliner but felt nervous about it and have been putting it off - here's your cue. Go do that.

If you aren't, then don't do that. It might help you out a little since, as OP implies, it will make you stand out. But since you aren't presenting yourself, but rather a charicature of someone else, you will feel inauthentic in the look, women will notice that you feel weird, and you won't be much better off than you started. Maybe worse off, if your normal outfit was already working.

In the... Let's call it the "autistic guys getting laid community", there is a lot of chatter around "archetype". How you dress and style yourself is a conscious decision you make every day, and it is how you make your first impression on any women you want to sleep with. So if you were to introduce yourself to a sexy somebody, what would you want to tell them about yourself? Well, first you need to tell them that you give enough of a shit about what you look like to put some time into looking good. Next, you'd want to tell them interesting things about yourself - what you value, what your job or hobbies are, what communities you are part of. But at the same time, you want to make sure you are communicating well - putting together an outfit based on "I just like it" and "this has something to do with who I am" is like introducing yourself in mandarin to a girl in Barcelona. Fitting your outfit to something that is immediately understandable within your broader culture is called dressing to your "archetype". Are you a skateboarder? Then dress like a skateboarder - stylishly ripped jeans, t shirt, flannel, beanie. A businessman? Wear a suit or a polo. A communist revolutionary? Rock your Che beret!

What makes women universally cream themselves? Say it with me: confidence. And a confident man is going to dress in a way that stands out and expresses who he is, because he knows that this is a great way to attract others to him who are similar. So: look good; look different; look like something identifiable.

What about blue jeans and solid colour tshirts with no logos like a cartoon character

It's not a bad look, but it also isn't helping you out. You'll need to work with your body, facial attractiveness, and personality - which can do a lot. But not improving how you dress (not necessarily as a goth, but in some way that makes you look good and expresses yourself in a way that others understand) will leave a lot on the table.
- Well with a beard and a second layer like a jacket I can pull off the "yes chad" look pretty easy even if it is an illusion, personality wise I'm a pretty shy guy that would rather pet a dog at a party than approach anyone but still capable of having proper conversations with random people though I have pulled an irish goodbye during one on one conversations at the end

Early 00s were a great time. I rocked those painted nails and eyeliner 🤘 along with the baggy jeans, chains and spikes

Nowadays all I dress in is luminous shorts and anxiety 🤘

I’m too old, out of shape, bald, and too much gray hair to pull off goth. Though somewhere out in the universe is a photo of an 18-yo me dressed as Frank from RHPS. Make-up, died hair, fishnets… the whole nine.

You'd be surprised, man. Go to any metal or rock concert and you'll see guys matching your description pulling it off.
Elder Goths hold the secret to aging successfully.

YOU DON'T KNOW HOW LITTLE I CARE ABOUT PUSSY THOUGH

Ohhh, that's the reason why The Sandman always looked so tired and kinda damp all the time... He was nearly drowning. 🤌🏼

("Second verse...")

Best I could realistically pull off is a wig to look like someone from Queen, when they had long hairs. If I put makeup, it's instant Twisted Sister

Then all you need is a weird, feathery top hat and you'll be just like that pickup artist guy on MTV.

Nah, I'm good.

Yeah. Sounds like too much work.

do you know how many people would shoot you for being slightly different

I mean, different strokes for different folks. I don't think it does your message much good to immediately put down someone else's choice of look.

I'm neither into goth girls, nor would I like to be one.

It worked for Motley Crue.

Motley Crue save for Mick Mars are pretty terrible people. But Motley Crue was without question the sexiest thing I ever saw.

My fingertips get weirdly sweaty whenever I wear nail polish. I joke it's my toxic masculinity leaking out, but really I just don't want to emphasize my toe thumbs. It's way more fun to show them when people don't even notice them.

Allergic?

Source? Guys don't think that. Ever.

Chads maybe. But not normies.