That's interesting and mostly relatable. After a few months of happy isolation during lockdowns, I realized that I do have some meagre needs for the good society of a friend from time to time.
But yeah not a lot of people are OK with that sort of "out of sight out of mind" type friendship. The people who are you treat like gold, though. Or at least I do, because I actually need them.
I'm sure it depends on the introvert, but I have two really good friends. I find I can hang out with those friends basically without draining my social battery, so they're my main goto for socializing.
I see right, yeah, it's the conditions social and material that give rise to the "disorder" whereas if we fix the conditions, it just evaporates. Like abolishing slavery or private property.
I don't want to sound all Malthusian but that's kind of fucked??