"The body doubleing for me is almost Impossible. My wife and kids are always doing things that distract me more than help. I am also hit with 20+ questions every 30 minutes from a 10 year old and 5 year old. 😅"
Yep I feel that in my bones, I have no real solution for you but when I'm in trouble I just make it clear to kids and wife that I'm overwhelmed, and do what I can.
PC upgrades, I was labouring along with my 15yo desktop for too long, one day I thought it was time to treat myself, it runs so much cooler and with less wasted power.
Sorry it's not funneh