Jessica @ SayJess @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I wish d**** upon everyone involved in the process. Is that censored enough? It could mean so many 5 letter words that begin with ‘d’.

That’s what I fear most and have been saying loudly to anyone who will listen, but they are all indifferent.

If I lose access to my care, I don’t know what I will do.

They abandoned us a while ago now.

Did they somehow work in “transgender for everybody” into the assassinations yet? I haven’t been following too closely.

A censure? We’d be lucky if he doesn’t get celebrated for it.

It would take nothing, because I would not accept them back as a partner. I’d rather not find out if “once a cheater, always a cheater” holds true or not.

You need to move on and work on yourself. He’s always going to doubt you to at least some degree. Don’t put him through that.

Fucking facts.

Let’s get a tweet drafted, and then delete it!

It’s pretty simple. Rowling is an avowed bigot who is using all of her means, financially and socially, to punish trans people for existing. She is a hateful person who should be judged harshly and ostracized. It will be a good day for the world when she is no longer able to or allowed to espouse her bigoted views.

Supporting her in anyway, be it paying for her works or even enjoying her content should be stigmatized to the maximum degree. Actors agreeing to work with or for her should lose everything, as they are even worse for helping to continue her pursuit of hate and villainy.

If she were to fall down a literary flight of stairs, I would be most pleased—especially if this were to happen daily until she were unable to fall any further.

Here’s to hoping that anyone that hitches their wagon with hers suffers pain and ruin.

It will be a fucking improvement.

The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.

That’s pretty cool. Reminds me of a Seinfeld episode.

Hell yeah! I still do that on road trips to pass the time. Keeps things a bit interesting.

That’s really cool!

I enjoyed looking at the big map of my state and calculating the approximate time we would either pass a city, or arrive at our destination. It was fun. I was pretty close too!

Thank you for the kind words. I’m sure she would have a different take on this, though I will never know. Some things are not meant to have finality I suppose.

🤷🏻‍♀️

I hope to someday have someone to call my partner again. We’ll see.

We were roommates, along with 4 other people, fresh out of high school. She and I grew closer, and before we knew it we were sharing a room together. Things went good for a couple of years, then we found out she was pregnant. Fast forward like 3 or 4 years, we bought a house. After a long engagement we were finally married, though we had lived together the whole time. Idk exactly why it ended. I was deep in the closet at that time, happy to be the man in the family as it meant having a wife, a son, a house and a car. I knew she would not accept me being trans, let alone pansexual, but again I was happy with my life. We fought for sure, over money and such. I guess we just fell out of love, and grew apart. Idk. After the divorce, she hated my guts, and still seems to strongly dislike me to this day, about 12 or so years later.

We co-parented decently for a couple of years after the divorce, but that fell apart. We haven’t actually spoken to each other in a few years, and I am fine with that. I dislike her, but as she is the mother of our son, I wouldn’t wish anything ill upon her.

I’m sure I was a shitty husband in ways that I did not see at the time, and never really cared to figure out to this day. I’d like to think that I have become a better person, and I think there are plenty of people in my life now that would say so.

I should note that after we divorced, I set up a profile on Grindr, which she found out about. She did not take that well. It was like 4-6 years later that I came out as trans and decided to be my true self.

TL;DR: I really don’t know if there was an actual reason to point to to say why we split up. I guess we both changed as we grew and became adults. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Considering that the police in LA operate as actual gangs, highly unlikely anything ever changes with them.

I cringe every time I read “the war in Gaza”. It is clearly a genocide. There is no way one could say otherwise, in good faith. The fact that my tax dollars are funding this sickens me.