No one wants to work for you because it sounds like working for you sucks. Nothing to do with money, you're literally just asking how can you be the shittiest employer possible.
Maybe change your attitude toward employment and treat people like they have value and they might stick around.
To my knowledge the recent update on the reddit megathread was because users were getting malware from one of the links. Its why I moved here, actually.
Idk what FMHY is but if its not this then what youre talking about already exists.
However, that list, while still mostly good, has been slowly turning... Not great.
Lemmy.dbzer0 has a list they maintain that is almost identical but better maintained. I'd post a link but idt it will work for you if you're not a member of the instance.
I'm a beginner currently doing exactly the same thing, plus a but more.
For the server I'm using Proxmox as a hypervisor, which let's me experiment with various OS's as I choose. For my phone, I have a pixel with GrapheneOS, which I love.
Same! So hard to find and much more expensive when you do.