shadowSprite @ shadowSprite @lemmy.world

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I know you're talking alcoholic cider, but you just brought back one of the few happy memories of my childhood. There used to be a small (nonalcoholic) apple cider making business relatively close to where I grew up. Every fall we'd compile a whole bunch of empty gallon jugs and make the drive over there. They had a giant keg of apple cider that they'd fill all the jugs from, and since I was just a kid the employees used to let me help them fill up the jugs. The smell of that place was absolute heaven. We'd leave with about 10 or 15 gallons of apple cider that we'd freeze for the rest of the year and a small jar of apple butter.

I want to be able to live in a small place with a backyard facing woods, hills, or water. I want to be able to pay my bills with enough left over for some savings, some fun stuff, and maybe a short vacation once every year or two. I want to go hiking on the weekend and I want to sit on my back porch at night and drink tea while wrapped in a blanket and I want a gaming room with a big window so I can play games late at night looking up at the sky. Why are my dreams so unattainable?

I did google it, and found a bunch of articles about dual booting with windows 7. I didn't know if it was still possible or if it would be smart to try for someone with no experience with Linux, so I thought I'd come to a sub where there are tons of people who use Linux daily and could give me some advice about whether I should try it or not. Thanks for the input :)

Thanks! I've been interested in Linux for awhile now. I don't plan on sharing files between the two OSes, and I'm religious about my backups. If I don't have at least 3 or 4 backups I don't consider my data backed up :)

I have no idea. I've known it for years. All my computer knowledge is self taught so random things I'm fairly knowledgeable on and then there's things that are common knowledge I've never heard of. I'm doing my best out here! I was a sheltered kid who grew up into an adult that doesn't know anyone tech savvy!

Thank you! This is all good advice. I've never actually used a VM but will have to do more research on installing and using one. When you (and everyone else here) say shrink the partition from inside windows, do you mean from within the disk management software? I'm familiar with that, having added extra drives on my other computers. I actually have 3 computers, 2 laptops and a gaming rig I built, but they both have Nvidia GPUs and I've heard so many bad things about Nvidia and Linux and I don't want my first Linux experience to be fighting it out with those. If I like Linux I'll probably switch one of my other computers over to Linux either entirely or on one of the second drives (both my other computers have 2 different drives).

"We must stop eating!" cried Toad, as he ate another. "Yes," said Frog, reaching for a cookie, "we need will power." (Frog and Toad Together)

That's me when I have good cookies.

Milk doing a body good

I'm a child of the 90s. My parents believed that so hard. I had to have a large glass of milk every night with dinner, and couldn't leave the table until it was gone. I'm also lactose intolerant. I have many memories of crying in pain in the bathroom :)

I've stopped eating breakfast, lunch, and most days dinner too! Gosh end stage capitalism is fun when for meals I just keep convincing my body that no, you aren't actually hungry as I drink more water.

I noticed a few months ago that if I would put things in my cart and not order them right away, the price in my cart would jump a lot without notice, but the price on the page would stay the same. Like, I added something that was $30 to my cart, 2 days later it was $50 in my cart but the store page still showed the price as $30 and there wasnt the usual "an item in your cart changed price" message. I had to delete it from my cart and re-add it to get the price to drop. There was no deal, it wasn't subscribe and save, nothing. This happened multiple times. I also had prime and couldn't tell you the last time my shipping took less than 2 weeks, and I live near a city. I've since canceled prime and stopped ordering from Amazon unless I can't find what I need elsewhere. Want to scam me, fuck you.

Skyrim and Witcher 3. Shoutouts to Baldurs Gate and Witcher 2, but the latter is far too short for me to want it on my "you can only play this" list, it's quirky but there's something special as hell about it for me. I've played it through about 15 times.

You sound like a good person. I hope you get out of the motel and into stable housing soon!

Hes been depressed for years. Kept saying its not me, and I kept asking how I could help and he kept telling me nothing. He's been working with changing his meds around and just hit a new combo less than 2 months ago that he admitted has made him completely numb and because of that/on top of that he's been drinking more after almost stopping alcohol. Won't talk about maybe that being an issue, nope, it's me, I gotto go. (He literally wont talk to me at all. We've had one text conversation since all this happened where he basically told me to fuck off and that his mind is made up). He was supposed to go to therapy recently for his depression but he changed his mind. I'm laughing because there's that sexist joke "men will literally do anything but go to therapy" yeah well he literally just fucked up my life rather than go to therapy and have to deal with his feelings. He claims this isn't my fault and there's nothing I could have done differently but also that "I should have known" that he was depressed and of course going to leave me like this. I've been depressed my entire life and I'd never do this, so stop lying and just tell me the truth.

Thank you for your kind words. I'm still completely in shock and just trying to process the entire thing. I've cried more in the last week than I have in my entire life. Up until a week ago I would have said he was literally the best husband I ever could have dreamed of.

That's why I'd only go there if money wasn't an issue :) otherwise I'd rather be in a Nordic country. It's a shame to see countries look at the US and think we're something to emulate.

About a month ago I was at the gas station filling up my 24 year old clunker when a homeless guy came up and asked if I would give him enough money for a coffee. I was going to lie and say I didn't have cash on me, but it occurred to me that I'm one bad day from being in his shoes every moment, so I checked the emergency stash I kept in my car and on impulse just gave him the whole pile of it. Idk how much it was, not a ton, but a handful of ones and maybe a $5 or a $10. And yeah, a week ago, that bad day happened. My husband dumped me via text message, and now I'm very, very close to homelessness in the next few weeks or months if I can't find a place to go soon. It's not always drugs, or addiction, or laziness. Sometimes it's making what look like good decisions and just getting fucked over.

I dream of being in New Zealand or a Nordic country, but I'm a broke American loser who's too poor to even go visit those countries, and so they don't even want me there in the first place. I will keep dreaming, and die with my dreams unfulfilled. Maybe next life.

Same. Grew up very sheltered, under-educated, and brainwashed. Got out into the real world, started learning, started seeing how things actually worked. Realized that it wasn't just "sluts" having abortions for convenience. Realized that even though I was super careful and in a committed relationship, getting pregnant would ruin my life and I'd probably seriously consider an abortion and I'd better re-think my stance or have to accept I was a genuine hypocrite. Got into EMS, started going out into people's houses... the poverty I've seen... the way we allow people to live in this country... it's appalling. Not only am I incredibly pro-choice, I've gone from conservative/libertarian to so far left/pro social services. I think anyone who wants to sit on their couch and talk about how people don't deserve abortions or don't deserve social services should be forced to go talk to these people because I met so many people who were unfortunate enough to be chronically ill and unable to work or who worked harder than me but in low-paid jobs and who had no hope of ever getting out of the hole they were in.

I was cleaning out awhile ago and found my first ever smartphone, a Galaxy s3. Boy, the memories... that phone sure wasn't perfect, but I think it's still my favorite phone, and it was literally the perfect size for my tiny ass hands. I hate hauling a small tablet around.

This is adulthood...

Married 8 years. Worked my butt off when we were dating/engaged and never managed to go to college, but he did. I've always wanted to go. We finally got somewhat stable the last few years, so I enrolled. A little over a year of FT in, I'm busting my ass again, not working at all since I started, because he told me "don't work, just focus on studying and getting good grades, and finish as soon as you can." I'm a fucking idiot. He left me last week with literally no warning. I have no job, no money, no friends, and the only 2 family members I have are 1000 miles away. Been going to classes because I have no idea what else to do but fuck.