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  • I disagree.

    Perhaps that were true a decade ago.

    At this point though I don't think supporting the republicans is really defensible.

    As in, anyone who is not racist would not support this.

  • Yeah.

    I'm in Australia, I suspect you might be also, but for reference a few months ago our centre-left party ground our centre-right party into the dust in a landslide election victory.

    I suppose I agree that its not all bad news.

    However, I'm gravely concerned about the US trajectory and I'm certain it will have an impact here sooner or later.

    Right now our PM is trying to negotiate the current tariffs. The US will want us to increase military spending, and reduce investment in science and research. We might resist, but it's certainly pressure to move in the wrong direction.

  • I dont think anyone cares about money anymore.

    They can see the problems arising from climate change on the horizon and they're creating a ruling class and a subservient class.

    If you're part of the ruling class you dont need money.

  • Unfortunately I think Trumpism is lowering the bar. Maybe right now it's not fascism everywhere, but there's no doubt that on a decades time the world will be more fascist than it would have been without Trump.

  • Like any analogy, it doesn't perfectly map to the complex issue being analogised (?), but it's not as absurd as you're making out.

    The architecture for plugin support is not free. Even if no plugins are active the platform is built to support all the extra nonsense.

    lighttpd is the leanest webdav implementation i can think of. Obviously it doesn't have sync and sharing and permissions, but it's an interesting point of reference demonstrating how over engineered nextcloud really is.

    If you're a fan, and want all of this stuff bundled together then fine, have at it. As I said up top, I am using it but I dislike it immensely.

  • Kinda sounds awful honestly.

    I do use nextcloud for my small team. It's the best of the selfhosted file sync platforms.

    That said, it's obscenely over engineered.

    Who ever wanted a file sync platform that also does calendaring and contacts?

  • Whether to forgive a cheating partner is a divisive issue. Some people say it's something they could never move past, others just don't think it's a big deal.

    I don't think it's necessarily men or women - its both. Probably more men commented on your boyfriend's post because he's a man.

    I can imagine it would be a pretty awful feeling to be in your position - you've acknowledged that you messed up, you've worked through it with your partner, and now all these people casting judgement on you without understanding the circumstances.

    There's a lot of different aspects to this. The web is full of "drama llamas". My guilty pleasure is reading /r/aitah posts, even though I know they're fake it's still really engaging and reading everyone's comments is interesting. People say things online that they would just never say to your face. So comments are way more hurtful.

    My advice has two parts:

    ask your boyfriend to delete the post because the people commenting don't really know you or the situation and it's very hurtful

    Secondly think through what you would tell a good friend who had been through something like this, it's probably something like "yeah you did mess up, but everyone does sooner or later, you've learned a lot and you've worked through it, " et cetera.