trainsaresexy @ mayo @lemmy.world

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What? Arrogant how? I feel like we're saying the same thing here.

I don't totally understand this either, though recently maybe more I understand it better. Seems like people cannot live without those things. I know someone who started crying when she realized she couldn't spend as much money as before (only to use the crying to get more money to buy things). Or my sister, who asks my parents for money all the time so she can maintain her chosen lifestyle. If she can't do that then life becomes difficult. It boggles my mind that 'difficult' is not being able to vacation twice a year but whatever.

The stress that less-vulnerable people experienced during covid when the main thing they had to do was not expand their social life for a year or two was a good example of how people are. The anger at not being able to go to the bar every weekend was nuts to me.

Few people can live a monastic life and feel like they are fulfilled, and fewer if any will feel good about that kind of life if they are forced into it. So who and how are they making those choices? We aren't taught to be frugal, we're taught to spend, it's our education towards living a "good life".

I think if you got people to stop eating meat and driving 2 blocks to the grocery store they'd grow depressed, frustrated, productivity would drop, birth rates would drop, life expectancy would drop. People need that stuff to feel good about their lives, and if you want to take it away you either need a near perfect competitor or take it away by force.

What's the advantage of kbin? I haven't tried it yet.