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∟⊔⊤∦∣≶ @ luthis @lemmy.nz Posts 86Comments 1,926Joined 2 yr. ago

∟⊔⊤∦∣≶ @ luthis @lemmy.nz
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Illegal to open a kickstarter to fund legal defense if someone were to assassinate this guy?
(Good Guy) Australian pharmacy ignores legal challenge over diabetes sensors
'There's nothing there': Company caught on CCTV not putting insulation into wall cavity
Is anyone able to explain the 'coming up' feeling after taking morning ritalin or caffeine?
Do you ever come up with genius ("genius") ideas for joke domains to unsettle/embarrass people when you tell them your email?
I'm afraid that's kinda just how it is... with the dating apps at least. If you're on a dating app, you're a disposable swipe. I had 3+ dates with this girl recently, and I was starting to think that this could be a thing, and then se fue. Silence. Not even a thanks. Anyways, that's kind of how it is apparently.
So here's my recommendation instead. Go and do shit. With other people. Don't try to date, try to open up the possibility for a date to happen. And then don't chase it, let it happen. Eg, go and learn salsa dancing. (As an introvert, it was a real hard thing for me to do (understatement), but it was so worth it.) Or join a hiking group, or Dnd, or pub quiz, or just anything that gets you into different social circles, meeting new people, where you aren't a disposable swipe, you're a team mate.
Also, don't read into other people. Sometimes people get busy with their lives, or have a crisis, a million reasons why they ghost you. It's not you, it's them. Girls don't take apps seriously either. They are expecting 99% of douchebags, and they would be 98% correct.
Final tip, get a gym buddy. That does wonders for ADHD, depression, confidence, energy, etc etc etc.
Tl;dr, apps suck, go get involved socially, work on yourself.