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Bro Kelce full on shoved him, like wtf. Big red don't be deservin that:(

It was a fucking nail biter!

It has like 73% heritability. Surely they got it from one of y'all? I've just started exploring a diagnosis in my 30s, and holy hell is it helping me make sense both of why I struggle so much and why my dad's so bonkers. Really recommend working with some professionals. I'm working on a degree in psych and can navigate the criteria from the DSM fairly well but I'm also working with individual and family therapists to help me and my family work through the hell it caused us from not knowing, plus how I can better understand/manage it moving forward

And something to keep in mind is they can learn from it, how it went wrong, if they have the opportunity to try again.

I commented here a while back about how I was pretty sure my dad wouldn't vote for him again because of this. Had it been a Democrat, he'd be screaming for them to be thrown in the gulags (he was raised/went into the military during the cold war). But when I asked... He said he had faith our institutions could handle it. I asked why he would take that risk and he didn't have much of an answer

You're contradicting yourself. If billionaires are shit heads, why does inheriting it inherently make you one? I agree with the other poster that keeping it all is the part that makes it shitty

Even virgins according to their scripture are just breeding stock

He fell asleep awfully close to the edge

I'm asking if you can put the same effort of voting for government shit into your employers. Not to research socialist schools of thought. The main socialist ideals that I'm aware of that I think have the most support are those for democratizing the workforce.

Wild that you're being down voted, the study literally discusses this and there's plenty of others. My ex is an alcoholic and would claim it helped him sleep, but I saw him get a few hours at best with high consumption, and when consumption lowered he'd sleep longer and with better quality without waking up as frequently. People claiming it helps them are lying to themselves, as is the nature of addiction.

You said you vote, then say it's exhausting to look into socialist policies. Can you not extend the same effort you put into voting for local, state, and federal representatives and policies to your employer?

Relationships are a two way street, and dynamics like this are pretty common. It's sometimes called over/under functioning or codependency in substance abuse. It could be the over functioner just tore the other person down, or the under functioner was susceptible already or drew it out of the over functioner. I agree it's really difficult to know based on limited data, and all we can say is this is strange and comes across as infantilizing but if it works for them then whatever tbh. Not my relationship to care about

Not who you asked, but the tab islands is my favorite feature from opera

Or apparently not replying at all, in this case. My favorite is the Jordan Peterson response, though: "I had over 6 months to prepare for a debate on this topic after decades of claiming to be an expert and showed up to admit I could only be bothered to read his manifesto"

You really still use wired headphones? I can't remember the last time I used mine. My phone and laptop still have the jack but I hate them. Catch on everything, having to keep the device by me at all times (which I don't always have pockets for), God forbid I forget I have em in and go to move around, get em yanked out of my ears or send the phone flying. I mean I get it if the wireless ones die, but even then, I'd rather wait for them to charge.

It could be, which is why my comment "friends, family, therapy" is useful, I think. If you're noticing a pattern that's upsetting you that you think could be an issue, talk with your friends, family, and a therapist about it. It can be difficult to identify issues we bring to relationships. It also might not be anything to do with you, though, so that's where the support from others can prevent a bad pattern of beating ourselves up unnecessarily comes in.

Someone replied that therapy may be inaccessible, but now more than ever there are tons of sliding scale therapists, groups, etc that can meet in person or online, even for free. And honestly, I'm grappling with the issue myself that I need to prioritize my mental health and not let the monetary set back be an excuse. It's an investment that will pay off

Friends, family, therapy.

Have you read anything by Marx?

Or: Found On Roadside Dead

In my boomer dad's case, it's been sitting dead on the property forrrrrr a few decades?

There's still plenty of overlap between the bell curves for average people, and anyway, how much does that difference matter? We share 50% DNA with bananas and the like .0000001% (someone else can do the math) difference between sexes results in social conditioning like your message here. Why?

I've had no trouble curating my feed to mostly professionals, psychologists and pet behaviorists. Occasional cute animal videos