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  • I didn't finish gta5 because there's a lot of just driving around doing nothing. And then the missions are very restrictive - you pretty much do exactly what it says or you go back to the checkpoint.

    I'd rather they were more like Deus Ex or Dishonored (I think those are called immersive Sims now?).

    Also Trevor is just unpleasant

  • Yeah, can't disagree with that.

    When I give people dating app advice, I tell them if they don't have the emotional resources to full-ass it, delete the app. Half-assing it is likely going to make things worse.

    But humans aren't rational creatures.

  • after a few times putting in effort and getting ghosted, you start to be a bit more frugal.

    I see why that would happen but it seems like a self destructive strategy. The other person wasn't there for all your other attempts. This is your first interaction with them. If you half-ass it, all they see is you're doing a bad job at conversation. You only get one first impression with someone.

  • That's kind of fascinating. and sad. It sounds kind of self-defeating- If the other person is reasonably well adjusted, they're going to take feigned disinterest as just regular disinterest, and move on. (Or think that the other person can't hold a conversation, and move on.)

    Maybe this creates a self-selection effect where the people who are afraid of being enthusiastic eventually meet each other? That would probably be best for everyone.

  • I'm reminded of that Sartre quote again

    Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.

  • Online dating is fascinating in how bad it is. It's like 80% the fault of capitalism, and 20% users just doing a bad job and making it worse. People write messages no deeper than "lol" and "nm hbu" and then wonder why they don't have any interesting conversations like on the tv

  • At the very least form unions. That will help with stuff like wage theft, some people getting underpaid, BS firings, etc.

    More aggressively, maybe some sort of collective ownership. Not this "options" bullshit where they never even vest for most people. The whole thing where management pays you $100 and sells what you made for $3000 needs to go. That $3000 needs to be more fairly shared among the people that made it happen.

    But I don't really know. I'm just some guy with entry level knowledge and a sense that the current system is wrong.

  • They could live more modest lives in more rural areas

    Living in a rural area for many people is literal hell, on top of having an array of less obvious costs. The big one is going from not needing a car to needing one. Your rent might drop $500 but you need to spend a lot on gas, insurance, maintenance, etc.

    Also the social options might fall off a cliff. Humans are social creatures. I live in a city and I can walk to dozens of social activities, many of them free. Board game meetups, free music in the park, free museums with tours, free sport leagues, etc. Out in the countryside there just aren't as many options.

    If you're queer or another minority, you might also have a worse time in the countryside. Maybe even fatally. A city is going to have a queer scene.

    Also, there are likely more jobs in the city. Remote work and economic upheaval have changed things, but even so, most of those offices in Manhattan are full of jobs. There's just more stuff where there's more people.

    Now, to your point, some people are certainly living in a $5900/mo apartment with a doorman and in-building gym that they can't afford. They could move to a less "nice" place in south Brooklyn or Queens for less than half that, likely at the cost of a longer commute, and losing easy access to a neighborhood they feel a part of. There is a housing crisis though, and people are getting priced further away. That's probably not going to be solved any time soon because capitalism doesn't care and will happily eat itself.

    Anyway. Long tangent but I'm extremely pro city so I spoke up.

  • I used a lot of mods, but I don't remember all of them right now

    "Natural growth and decay" I think was the one I got for stats, because I didn't want to deal with the original's insane leveling system. It was pretty good, but had some bugs. Once you got money to pay for training, the wheels fell off because you could rocket up all your skills and stats.

    Once you have the skills for Frenzy100 and a spear, you can get unlimited money by taking out the guards that carry ebony weapons. Ok, that kind of wackiness is a little charming.

    I also got a mod so NPCs had more money, because hitting every merchant in town and advancing time so they refresh is really tedious.

    Oh, and I got one so Magicka regenerates, because constantly sleeping or chugging potions is tedious.

    And one so you can have up to 12 marks saved.

    If you have any recs let me know

  • I keep hoping this will spark some sort of anti-capitalist zeitgeist. But labor might be too scattered and individualistic.

    Like, why are we all scrambling for a handful of jobs when the rich have so many resources?

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  • This is a time of political crisis. The US government is upending decades of alliances and economics. The right wing is globally on the rise, and that means people's lives are in danger. The environment is becoming more unpredictable and less supportive for humanity.

    There's a lot of important political shit to talk about. If we were living in a boring utopia, there'd be less, probably.

    Also, what do you even consider "political"? Some people will tell you that a story about a man and a woman getting married isn't political, but a story about two men getting married is. That's a really low quality analysis there.

  • Like. Why was this bs ever illegal in the first place?

    Us answer:

    I believe Nixon realized they couldn't make it illegal to be against the war and otherwise left wing, but they could make things correlated with that illegal. And thus the war on drugs was born. It also lets the state enforce white supremacy.

    Recommend reading "the new Jim Crow" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_Jim_Crow