You're not a mind reader. If they wanted to go to bed earlier cuz they got up early they should have told you that. Being a little late doesn't justify their reaction in my opinion. If they want you home by x time they need to clearly request that. Even if they request that it doesn't mean you have to agree. They shouldn't be setting a curfew for you, imo.
Yeah maybe you should ask what your partner wanted, either dishes or sleep. But again you're not a mind reminder. I would say it's more of them to tell you clearly what they want. In this case if they wanted you to do dishes or go to bed early.
Overall your partner doesn't sound like they are communicating healthly.
My apologies for reducing your opinion to "hater". May I inquire into the reason you have such strong feelings for Mr Devito? It appears it may be related to his being American. Would it effect your opinion of him if I told you he isn't actually American? He was born in New Jersey, which to many isn't really part of America, more of an unwanted growth of New York.
I know I have offended you and for that I apologize. However, I will not leave your person attacks unanswered. I will have you know my ocular spheres transmit to my brain a far larger number of colors. I would safetly estimate I can comprehend as near as 3 colors! Maybe more!
You're not a mind reader. If they wanted to go to bed earlier cuz they got up early they should have told you that. Being a little late doesn't justify their reaction in my opinion. If they want you home by x time they need to clearly request that. Even if they request that it doesn't mean you have to agree. They shouldn't be setting a curfew for you, imo.
Yeah maybe you should ask what your partner wanted, either dishes or sleep. But again you're not a mind reminder. I would say it's more of them to tell you clearly what they want. In this case if they wanted you to do dishes or go to bed early.
Overall your partner doesn't sound like they are communicating healthly.