Not even just that. My dad didn't go to college, he joined the military at 18. He walked away from that and landed an engineering job with no degree. Now, he's in a position that would ask for a masters minimum making nearly 300k a year.
I joined the military and walked away with bad knees and a list of phone numbers to get a job in the trades. Don't get me wrong, I took it, but damn I'm sure as hell not making anything near what he was at my age.
Depends on a lot of things. I started an apprenticeship machining, and now I want to turn my garage into a machine shop.
I think the important thing is that you make sure you keep some of it for you.
If I did turn my garage into a machine shop, it would be tempting to start taking orders. That's where my hobby would turn into more work, having to meet orders and timelines.
A few hundred a month less. I'm not suddenly drowning in money, obviously, but it's interesting paying less for much more, and that money actually benefitting my net worth vs being flushed down the toilet
My biggest head scratcher now that I've bought a house is "huh, my mortgage is locked in now, no matter what the market does... Why did rent keep going up if my landlord's mortgages were locked in?"
I honestly don't have a good answer, I could be looking at something perfectly explainable. But to me it seemed like they raised rent not because costs went up, but because they could. Why not. Everybody else is doing it.
Yeah, the only reason anybody says that is because we're so desensitized by pay-to-win mechanics and games being released half finished with day 1 dlc to fill the gaps, so we say "at least it's better than that"
Remember horse armor? I bet there's plenty of video games out now with cosmetic horse armor for sale.
I've found that playing over internet makes it all much easier. A 3 hour session means 3 hours, instead of 3 hours plus motivation to get out of the house and travel times
Fair. All things considered though, my friend who couldn't get through DOSII has been begging me to get the BG3 early access with him. So without playing it, it seems more approachable!!!
Without knowing what fight you stopped at it's hard to really talk about your experience, but I promise you don't need to know a fight is coming or cheese the fight. There's a point where the fights just click for you and become easier. There's also plenty of content you can go to instead to level up, if you're under leveled.
There's only 1 fight I can think of that's balls to three weeks nuts (the Blackpits) and my brother and I still beat it legitimately, just took like 6 attempts.
We don't know the full story. I'd generally agree with you that family is more important than random strangers, and we should make more effort with family that we would with strangers. But that only goes so far, and the family members need to be making similar efforts, it can't all be the children's responsibility to retain good will while the parent routinely damages the relationship.
The OP already said they'd given their mom 6 years, that's clearly the "family" effect, they have their mother many many more chances than they would a stranger.
I don't know what your relationship looks like with your parents, hopefully it's lovely, but once you're an adult the power dynamic needs to change dramatically. My parents no longer control me and can't tell me how to live my life. They can provide advice, which I generally cherish because they're more experienced in life than me, but if they try to strongarm me into their choice like they did when I was their legal charge, I tell them "NO"
It's just a case of different opinions, I think. Or perhaps they think reddit having 100's of millions of users is creating the problems, and that they won't exist here if those same voices came to Lemmy. But I would mostly just say it's two different groups of people asking for two different things.
I'm in the boat that Lemmy has fully replaced reddit for me and I don't feel the need to go convincing more people to jump ship. The people who cared about the health of Reddit as a platform have already come to Lemmy, the people who don't, or need the massive userbase to use a website? They can stay there.
I agree, but very few self respecting adults are going to voluntarily sign up for a combat MOS, and we gotta keep those gears turning on the military industrial complex!
For real though, I got lucky. Joined at 19, thought I wanted to kill people, didn't deploy until I was 23 and much more in the mindset of "what the fuck this is not me at all"
A lot of the younger guys were vocally disappointed when they found out it was just a peacekeeping mission, low risk. Us "older guys" just said thank God, we'd like to go back to our families at the end of this.
Yep, I deployed and my wife and I stayed faithful to each other. The military just has a way of convincing terrible matchups to get married. I started dating my wife a bit before I joined, and basic training had me ready to marry her as soon as I graduated. Luckily she was smarter than me and we waited a few years and worked out about 40,000 problems before we actually got married.
But I see a lot of young soldiers who aren't smarter. The military can make you feel very alone, make you miss your friends or girlfriend super badly, make you want to make a big romantic gesture when you get back to them, make you want to lock in a partner to face the world with. So yes the 18-20 year olds go marry somebody they really shouldn't have, and over the years they grow apart because they were only held together by expectations. Then when they get split up by a deployment, they both want to experience another person consequence free.
Because commissioned officers write the rules that make them feel good and strong and important, and remind anybody who hasn't gone to college that they're mangy peasants unworthy to be in said college graduate's presence.
Music streaming is just ... Objectively better for everybody. Small bands can be heard, hence the indy scene booming so hard, consumers can access their content anywhere there's internet.
I think you miss the ritual around getting physical media and having a session where you just sit back and listen to the album for the first time. You could try to replicate it, but I think child-like wonder was the main ingredient ;)
Yeah the sentiment surrounding vapes generally is that they're better than cigarettes. Most people still want to entirely quit vaping, quit nicotine altogether.
Unfortunately, vapes are super enticing to younger people. Even ignoring the underage market entirely, young people love vaping. I'm in the army, so maybe my demographics are skewed, but EVERYBODY is vaping super high nicotine disposable vapes these days.
When I first started vaping, nicotine concrentations were commonly 3 or 6 mg/ml, now 50mg/ml is common.
Not even just that. My dad didn't go to college, he joined the military at 18. He walked away from that and landed an engineering job with no degree. Now, he's in a position that would ask for a masters minimum making nearly 300k a year.
I joined the military and walked away with bad knees and a list of phone numbers to get a job in the trades. Don't get me wrong, I took it, but damn I'm sure as hell not making anything near what he was at my age.