The biggest tragedy of moving off Lemmy for me is that I love having Sync to browse Beehaw from my phone. I'm a mobile user and I really like having a native app to enjoy a community like this. 😭
Thank you for being upfront and honest about the challenges you're facing. I'd like to also put my vote in for going whitelist only rather than moving off the fediverse altogether. However, I'm a big fan of beehaw and would likely follow a migration, but only if there's a good mobile experience on the new site.
I have found that practical solutions are rarely all or nothing, personally.
Are you against eating meat from a consequentialist perspective, or a deontological one? In my opinion, less meat eaten is better - better for the environment, and less money going into cruel practices around slaughtering animals, etc - even if the reasons for it are varied and not strictly from a standard of moral duty.
Yeah... Other lemmy instances just don't cut it for me. Beehaw definitely has a quality difference.