Want to start dating but it'll probably hurt my best friend who I'm not romantically interested in.
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I'm usually on the "no, that girl who smiled at you because she's a friendly person didn't lead you on" side, but you bought a bed together and do sex stuff, even if you haven't had actual sex...
That doesn't mean you owe them forever, or even now, but you're a big part of the reason for their emotions here.
Start by broaching the separate beds, IMO. Then give a little time before dating, if you want to minimize pain.