Lemmy, have you used free software to design your dream home?
cheesymoonshadow @ cheesymoonshadow @lemmings.world Posts 15Comments 583Joined 2 yr. ago

cheesymoonshadow @ cheesymoonshadow @lemmings.world
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I'm sorry. :(
If you're still young, may I suggest opening up a 401K account, especially if your employer offers to match your contributions. I know everybody's situation is different, but I can tell you that 401Ks, an IRA, and being frugal are what has made building a home a possibility for me and my husband.
By being frugal, I don't mean starving yourself and never enjoying anything, but cut out non-essential spending. You don't need to upgrade your phone, your computer, or your car every time. Pay that shit off. You also don't need to subscribe to every single streaming service. Pick one and watch the shit out of their content, then cancel and switch to another. Usually you even get a free trial to start.
Again, I'm not saying this will work for everyone, and I know life is never that simple, but these things really helped me and my husband save up over the decades.