When it's being done to you the rules go out the window. I think this is a study in human nature. When you're about to be killed would you kill the person attacking you? Would you lay down on your principles and just die? I don't know the answer.
There are some who truly didn't believe. Nieve is the word. They can realize now, but they won't say anything. They are more worried about being embarrassed than accepting their error.
Europe had better figure that shit out. It's only gonna get worse without concrete steps to force an end to the conflict. They should vote on Ukraine EU entry and send in their own troops if affirmative.
I'm already at acceptance.
I can't fix this mess in any sort of short time span. I'm training the neighborhood kids to be empathetic. That's the best I can do.