Begin social, wishing to meeting people, not just strangers but friends and family, and feeling good to spend time with them. Because be a grumpy lone wolf dosnt pay off.
Welcome to the internet. Begin able to change your reality demands the higher sacrife and nothing come easily. Isn't about your age or the money, most of the time what we think is awful is just nothing compare to the sacrifice need it to change. Alot of people who run away from their abusive families ends to find the same reality with a lot more abusive jobs, roommates or landlords. So what the deal? World is just an hell and what we can do it? Nothing, existing for some times, eating potatoes, doing stuff, not aspecting the happy ending, and yes there is always a way to go on in any situation.
You ignoring the fact that most of newborn are just mistakes and only few planning to have a kids. Is not popular adopting because isnt also actually planning parenthood, never was from beginning of human history.
If you remove the bots and people who are pay for comments, then you left with a society where everything is become to public domains, where every name have a face linked on a social network. People are scare to say fuck you and they want to give only a good impression.
Probably not because girls interested in nerd stuff are still a rare minority that become even more rare with the overage. People believe that things like gaming are a common reality but then the reality fails on simple alot of casuals that's believe owning a playstation make them nerds. This ruins the relationships, not just nerdy stuff, but everything that is a religious dedication, and when this things are hobbies like games easily a casual will not understand and will blames you for how you spending your time.
It happen that she will leaves me, and not because horny stuff but mostly nerdy and videogames junks. Already happen actually and I see how many women looks a guy who lives on games stuff. You as man become a kid in the eyes of this girls.
Doctors do the same and even asking moneys for that. Or do you think that your doctor gladly will take a look at your asshole without hesitation? It's all about careless hipotesis till you die on pain or you are ready to burn cash.
It about your diet that makes your asshole burn and grows hemorrhoids. When you poop they break and you bleed. Eat more vegetables, fish and proteins. Less sugar and carbohydrates, no fastfood, drink only water.
I have do it for one year with bad result because when someone say futon forget to mention what kind of room you want to have a futon. I placed mine on marble floor, cold and hard, in a little room with no space to breath, where I wake up sometimes with a cockroach on my face. I did not suffer backpain because I was younger but maybe neither because it was soft, still bad experience for the above listed things. Who plan to sleep on futon wants a medium size room with a window and a wooded floor.
I have tried a lot apps. I hate then all. They are full of ads and everyone have subcriptions, rabbit holes for idiots who are ready to give away money. Better learn by books, guides, some youtubes introductions, and by trying some personal project, like even building a minigame or basic program.
Guild Wars. When i was younger it was my life, played almost 18 hours everyday for years. Then less when the game become outdated in 2012 with Guild Wars 2 drop. Played second game too but didn't last more that two years. Probably in 12 years I have 25.000 hours totally from both games. Now I'm playing something else but with so much less enthusiasm, and actually I am about to drop any game to looking forward to the real life.
Because in the mainstream platforms the people who share your interested are payed to make you feel like that. While in place like Mastodon, or here, you can feel the harsh reality.
Not using the kitchen first, then make an anonymous reminder printed and posted on the supply area like: "Wash your hands, Bob you disgusting piece of shit, we all saw you don't wash and come here with your dirty hands, this is a friendly message, next I call the sindacate and regional healthy district, bye"
Next year you will see, some will change name and you never know what is what. No one cares and when someone do is fooled by using the first things he got offert. There eat this "threats" is yummy, here some other shit, who cares, billionares who plays with nothing.
Begin social, wishing to meeting people, not just strangers but friends and family, and feeling good to spend time with them. Because be a grumpy lone wolf dosnt pay off.