SDF = Syrian Democratic Forces. I think they have their hands tied up right now.
Or if the admin is French: SDF = homeless person.
On a more serious note, what does the donation situation look like for this instance? Demanding more time from an admin is a little bit hard if people aren't donating and the admin has a life beyond the instance. Probably getting more people on board would be the solution, but that requires trust.
Remember, everyone is a hypocrite. The USA is a melting pot of so many different peoples with about 250 years of history as a nation. My working theory is that has led to a nation-wide identity crisis: who and what am I. They are intensely occupied with their origins because the only people who have been on the continent for millennia (Native Americans) were brutally reduced and are the only ones who know their roots with higher certainty. \
It's why many USAians will gladly call themselves "Italian", "Indonesian", or "African" without ever having set a foot in that country/continent, knowing next to nothing about it, being unable to speak or even identity a language from there, nor locate it on the map.
Factor in their education system, "winner takes all" vote counting system which leads to tribalism, and media influence, human inability to think long term, and you end up with a large swathe of people who cannot reason logically about these things.
The use of races to distinguish people socially is playing right into the racists' playbook by forcing you to play on their turf, where reason is out of the window.
Has he hung around too many trad girlfriends or something? This is the type of shit I constantly heard around me from women who saw men a walking fleshwallet with a dick, driven by the desire to hunt, fuck, and conquer anything with a hole. Some backwards traditionalist thinking.
Could you expand on that?