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  • Using this approach, everything that can't be disproven must exist

  • You just delete the text and type it in. But that being said, it should be fixed now

  • The default server reset itself when we updated cinny. You can still type in chat.blahaj.zone manually until we get it fixed!

  • As soon as Jellyfin allows downloads for offline viewing

    Time to jump ship then...

  • Jellyfin has had sync play for a long time

  • That's what the different sorting algorithms are for. Trying sorting by "active" or "scaled" and see how it goes

  • Amazon is creating a series focused on a future in which Amazon and its like do not exist, nor do billionaires? It will be interesting to see how much they taint that, especially given the initial perspective of the protagonist towards The Culture

  • Sure, if you fall out with a group, you might end up shifting your views when a new group you join sees things slightly differently. Lots of progressive groups fight and argue with each other over the specifics, and it often gets quite heated. But that's not the same thing as radically shifting your moral compass to point in another direction altogether.

  • While ふたなり (futanari) can be used to describe a transgender person, it would likely be seen as either woefully archaic or just incorrect

    It may be both of those things, but in English, it's still used a porn stand in for porn involving trans women

    because of its use in porn and it's loan-word status in English is frankly a bit colonial

    The conversation here is explicitly about the loan word in english, not about the way it's used in Japanese

    Is hermaphrodite a slur for trans people?

    Yes

  • The term is universally objectifying and sexualised when used against trans people, because it defines trans folk by their genitals and does so in a sexualised way.

    It's one thing for a trans person to use the term for themselves, but yes, if someone else comes along and uses that term at a trans person without explicit consent, it absolutely deserves a ban and will get one.

    And from your perspective, this is the end of the discussion. If you come back with more arguments or pushback against gender diverse folk talking in their own communities about terms referring to us, you will be getting a second instance ban. It's time to take onboard what you've heard, and bow out of this conversation.

  • Again, have you actually seen someone using the term disparagingly against someone

    That was literally the reason this thread was posted.

    You have previously been instance banned specifically for coming in to a trans space to complain about trans folk not being supportive of your "allyship", and here you are again, in a trans meta community, arguing with gender diverse folk over objectifying terms levelled against our community.

    Did you not learn anything last time?

    Pull your head in

  • Photography, and if we want to stretch the definition, storytelling (medium agnostic)

  • But whenever I get downvoted and shouted down for voicing an opinion that aligns with conservatives, or simply isn't "leftist" enough, it makes me want to distance myself from "leftist" ideology and adds to my disillusionment.

    Why does disillusionment with the people involved in a movement influence your opinion on the ideals behind the movement?

    Should the idea itself be bigger than the people that espouse it? If empathy and compassion are worthy goals, you don't just give up on them because other folk don't display them. If rejecting sexism is a worthy goal, you don't dial up the sexism because some folk think you don't go far enough in rejecting it.

  • It's a satire account and community.

  • It's 222-2222. I got an answering machine that can talk to you

    Otherwise, you can reach me on 867-5309. Ask for Jenny

  • Downvotes aren’t how you address racists and bigots. Banning them is.

    Downvoting is a tool that racists and bigots use when they’re trying to avoid getting banned though. On top of that, most targetted groups are minorities, which by definition, have small numbers. All off which means that the impact of downvotes hits vulnerable minorities harder than it hits bigots.

    To you, this is some sort of hypothetical ideal that you’d like to see. In your mind, if things “worked the way they should”, downvoting would be a useful tool. But things don’t work the way the should. They work they way they are used, and in this case, that means they often hurt vulnerable groups more than they help them, despite how it ‘should be”

  • In your analogy, downvotes aren't the tool. Social media is the tool. And turning off downvotes is how we use that tool to match our needs.