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  • This is why I think weaponized incompetence is a better term than willful incompetence.

    I don't think it's even always intentional, conscious, or willful. It's just, well, "not giving a fuck", and getting away with it because women are always around to deal with their shit.

  • Ugh.

    If you consciously change your behaviour once there's no women around... Yeah, chances are you won't see me again unless I'm absolutely forced to.

    It's like some people think they're contractually obliged to make a sexist joke or some shit. Thankfully I don't meet these people often.

  • I discontinued my subscription because it's stupidly expensive and they keep investing in dumb AI shit I don't want rather than making search cheaper and/or better.

    Gotta admit, I do miss it. It's a neat service. But not for that price.

  • Yeah, I think that's a very valid point that I didn't immediately give enough consideration.

  • As a complete outsider, being a woman in a country where half the men are Trump supporters sounds fucking terrifying.

  • I think it's a good sign - people are on here because they like it, not just because they are free software fanatics.

    If nobody here had any Meta accounts I would be more worried, as it would mean we're completely detached from whatever normal people are up to.

  • If proximity to anything else than nature is not a priority, you can get amazing houses in rural Norway dirt cheep.

    Costs of living there is another question entirely, of course.

  • There's a bunch of really badass people doing interesting things and discovering new things well into their 70s. The grandfather of a friend of mine picked up orientation running in his 80s - he's now the national champion of his age group.

    I think more than age, what one has to overcome is the reluctancy to try new things. I think this is natural to humans at any age; the difference is that when we're young we're forced to try new things as few things are now new. The more experienced we get the easier it is to fall into old habits, and he who's not busy being born is busy dying, as Dylan said.

  • I like the choose your own adventure element. If you want strong content moderation you can go to Beehaw; if you want something more catch all, Lemmy.world is good; if you're a Stalinist, you have at least three solid options.

    The instances talk to each other, but many fulfill slightly different functions.

    At Reddit, it seems the stupidest posts often get thousands of upvotes. Here, they're lucky if they get 50. So that makes me feel less crazy, I guess.

  • Yeah, sure. But then again everyone should aim to behave in a way where it doesn't take goodwill not to ban them - especially here, where you might be banned from some instances but not others, and never even know it.

    In that sense, if you were to migrate your profile, your bans should also migrate with you.

  • "probably" is a nice word here. I have seen no indication that Mastodon plans to make their groups difficult to work with for other platforms. There is, however, many interests to take into account to ensure a good user experience, and not one solution is guaranteed to work well for everyone. What works in the Threadiverse might very well be terrible in Mastodon. They follow very different network dynamics.

  • Hi, and welcome!

    Lemmy does not, as of now, interoperate very well with Fediverse services such as Mastodon and Pixelfed. Sure, you can follow Lemmy communities from Mastodon, but it's not a pleasant experience. The group just boosts everything that is ever posted to it.

    Likewise, Lemmy does not work with Phanphy - it has its own API, and separate apps. It's too different from Pixelfed/Mastodon for it to make sense to share an API.

    If you search for @elena@lemmy.world at mastodon.social you will, however, be able to see your user from there; you can view this post, and if you have an account you can comment on it and contribute to the discussion like anyone else. You can also boost the post or comments to it, making it possible for content from Lemmy to reach far and wide. We sometimes do get comments from Mastodon users, so it clear that this happens every now and then, but mostly it's kept separate.

    Mastodon users can also post to Lemmy by tagging a community (like they would tag an a.gup.pe group), but it's not very intuitive.

    We commonly refer to Lemmy as part of the Threadiverse - a subset of the Fediverse which revolves around threaded discussions around shared content (Reddit like). The main platforms are Lemmy, Mbin (which is what I'm currently posting from), and PieFed.

    Mbin and PieFed go further in the direction of interoperability than Lemmy does. Mbin supports Mastodon-like microblogging; if you check out the search for the hashtag Lemmy, you'll see not only this post, but also microblogs from Mastodon and all kinds of content. Limited, of course, by what is federated with that instance (Kbin.earth doesn't have too many users).

    In Piefed, users can follow Mastodon groups made with a.gup.pe, such as the knitting group. Often Mastodon users start their posts by tagging each other, so it doesn't look completely native, but it can be neat. You can also follow PeerTube channels directly in Piefed.

    In short, it's quite complicated - there are different platforms, and they all solve interoperability differently and prioritize it to different degrees. There's always the possibility that Mastodon users will stop by and say hello, but how easy it is made for them to do so varies quite a lot.

  • I had a bit of a slow start on Mastodon, but after sticking with it for a while it's now by far the best social media experience I've ever had. I follow less than 200 people, not all of them active, but their posts along with the content they boost provides a much more interesting feed for me than any algorithm ever has.

    And when I post something I've put work into, it's boosted by those interested and reaches far more relevant people than I've ever reached on other networks. And people trust it to be interesting because it's boosted by someone they trust, rather than some faceless algorithm.

    That said, the cost of entry is indeed a bit high.

  • Ah yeah, it's not possible on Mastodon either. Your content stays where it is.

    I think it's even less of a problem on the Threadiverse than it is on Mastodon though. Most people are interested in new content here, we rarely go digging too much through the archives. Though it would of course be neat.

    • Consider writing an introduction post. "Hello, I'm [this person], and I'm interested in [this and that]. I'll be posting about  [these things], and I'm passionate about [something]." Tag it #introduction, along with other tags relevant to your interests. Check out what other people have written in their introduction for inspiration. Pin the introduction to your profile. Personally I never got around to writing one, but I'm pretty sure I would have had more followers if I did.
    • Write who you are in your bio - what can people expect if they follow you? Who are you? It doesn't need to disclose your true identity, but people follow other people on Mastodon, so it's good to make it look a bit personal.
    • Tag a relevant a.gup.pe. The group will boost your post to all its followers, making your post visible on more instances even if you don't have followers there yet. If you asked this on Mastodon, you might for example tag @fediverse@a.gup.pe and @mastodon@a.gup.pe, though neither are unfortunately very big. At least your post is likely to get pushed to the largest instances, and some people who are interested might see it in their feeds.
    • Throw in some relevant hashtags. Some Mastodon clients will hide them a bit if they're at the end of the post.
    • Search for content, follow relevant people when you see them. It takes a bit of time, but gradually you'll expand your network and get momentum. If you're in a small instance, you might search for relevant hashtag at a more central hub (like mastodon.social) or a more specialized one (like sciences.social if you're into social sciences)
  • On Mastodon it's all about who you're following and who you're being followed by, so being able to move somewhere else and take your followers with you is a big deal.

    On the Threadiverse we don't really follow users so much, so the whole concept of account migration becomes very different. Migration of communities rather than of users would probably be the best parallel - it would be great if subscribers could automatically follow a migrating community without having to manually resubscribe.

  • I guess it's also natural that subcultures that tend to be banned elsewhere are early adaptors of alternative platforms.

    We're lucky we didn't exist when the Trump extremists on Reddit went looking for a new home, or they would probably have been one of the biggest fields in this figure. Hopefully when the right wing extremists arrive instance admins will have the good sense to defederate.

  • In Europe HBO covered it, I think you could even get a free trial during the Olympics if you didn't have an account from before. My partner has an account so I didn't check.

    It worked great, and it was nice to easily change the language of the commentary. Really couldn't have asked for a better viewing experience, as I don't want public broadcasters to support this corruption shit show.

    That said, it bothers me that it's impossible to find clips online.

  • (and some of us don't even use Lemmy - I'm on mbin and piefed)

  • It literally cannot, because nobody owns it. Which is why there's some confusion in this thread.

    You've basically entered a public beach asking for the manager. Everybody's looking around a bit confused. That guy over there has been here all day, so maybe he would do? Or maybe that guy over there who has a beach blanket with a bunch of friends on it? That kid over there built a nice sandcastle, maybe he's the one you'd like to talk to.

    It's not like the private beach over at Reddit. There's not one clear person in charge, and not one person can shut it down or change the rules for everyone else.

    We have some people occasionally trying to poison the water, but we're getting better at expelling them before they manage to do too much damage.