I assure you, you can be both active duty and broke shitless. Its heavily subsidized food, lodging, and bare necessities; and the current government is trying to slash even those benefits. There's also only so long you can keep people happy without disposable income.
Mom had one, he accidently scratched her while asleep, woke up, saw he scratched her, then cried and sulked in the corner over it. Absolute sweetest cat ever
Some cats are like that. I've met a cat that will absolutely fuck you up if you try to grab them, but if you find them sitting somewhere you can just bury your face in her side and she's all purrs immediately
I hated milk too, and MUCH later on in life i learned I'm lactose intolerant. Neither parent noticed because they also didn't drink milk.