UrPartnerInCrime @ UrPartnerInCrime @sh.itjust.works

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Eh. As an adult I get to fully choose which side I'm on. And going off of the facts I had at the time, id choose the side of not being with a cheating power abuser

But since more facts have been stated besides just i dont feel like it, its easier to pick a diffrent side.

This wasn't cheater vs homophobe at first

I see where you're coming from. But luck favors the bold. And I would most definitely regret not doing something for the rest of my life

But after the first attempt your no longer bold, just dumb.

I made a rule for myself because of stuff like this

If you've done something fun but incredibly stupid and got away with it the first time, never do it a second time.

I'm only stopping now cause OP cleared the situation up more.

Otherwise, I'd say I feel sorry for your mother. To have a child that wouldn't have their back in that situation must be upsetting.

This person likes victim blaming

Oh wait? This isn't about 2 gay men so its equal?

Ahhh. Yeah. Its all her fault. I understand OPs dilemma now

Edit: /s

Yes, cause letting your child not only live with a cheater but the young ASSISTANT he fucked while still going through with your divorce is such a good move.

The dad obviously doesn't make good choices. He's only thinking about himself. And the child already thinks theyre the greatest.

Im not saying parents should never talk to their kids. But thats what's going to happen if OP stays in the house with is dad and his YOUNG ASSISTANT THAT MOVED IN BEFORE THE DIVORCE SHE CAUSED IS EVEN FINAL

Yup, but the dad here instead DID just moved on and brought the side chick into their old family home

Maybe not in a perfect world. But here there are clearly very opposing sides.

Even if the dad is cool about it and makes it seem like choosing to stay with him isn't picking a side, it still is

My recommendation is not to side with the guy who not only had an affair but invited Ms side peice to live in their old family home

Then OP better be fine never talking to their mom again

One choice is helping a faithful parent grieve, the other is to say fuck you to that person and stand by a cheater.

Such a difficult choice.

The problem with this dicks fine persons arguement is your choosing sides either way. Its unfortunate but true. And do you want to stand on the side of the person who didn't cheat, or the one who did

Inaction is still an action

Also, you say im cherry picking but you're the one going around saying "read point 2 again" as if your not cherry picking your own commandments

Still ain't an airport. Don't have to announce your departure.

My argument has been the same since the beginning as literally the first comment. Sticking with dad is also choosing the new chick in the mom's eyes. What dad did is deplorable and OP staying with shows their morals and lack of them

Because it's lack of respect to your partner.

Literally hundreds of regular instances. Instances that still have NSFW on them.

But they decided they needed to be surrounded by porn to be happy.

It's the message you give to the person your supposed to be faithful to. A message that, to be happy, I need to have porn around me at any given time.

Which, kinda shows why he's working on marriage number 2 in my book.

You would be happy if your partner had the easiest choice to not make their account on the porn instance but still did?

? It was literally point number 3 you made. How people make mistakes and it happens

The OP asked if they should have their mother's back even though it means not having their best friend

Yes. Their best friend stooped to one of the lowest places they can go and now they want to stand by them. If they do, theyre are bad by association and deserve their mother eventually not talking to them either.

Edit: if he's such a best friend, he'll make amends with her even if they choose their mother right now.