As a more serious response: we... don't actually do that. It's not a coordinated thing. There's no Secret Hexbear Discord Cabal where we congregate and conspire to raid an instance and be dickheads. It's organic content from real people.
Very early on (years before federation and the Reddit exodus) we made a decision to remove downvotes from our instance. We were having a serious problem with trans users being anonymously bullied by a small number of bad actors downvoting all their content. So, we purged those assholes' accounts and turned downvotes off. The intent was to encourage a culture of active participation by de-anonymizing disagreement. If you want to disagree with something on Hexbear, you need to say it out loud in public.
Post-federation, other instances interpreted that as "brigading". It isn't. If we see something we think is bad, we tell you, instead of just pressing the "I Disagree" button. I understand that isn't to everybody's taste, and I don't blame anybody for blacklisting our Lemmy instance—we intentionally buck the trend of passive scrolling through social media. If you just want to share some memes and have a lark, Hexbear probably isn't for you. And that's fine! That's what's cool about Lemmy—you can just shut off a community you don't like!
(And, anticipating responses: yes, I am aware that there's a small segment of Hexbears who seem to enjoy inter-instance drama. That's true of all instances, though. We regularly see the same kind of behavior from visitors back home, too. But, we've got a culture of being extremely vocal. So our assholes are loud, too. And if something is organically popular enough to show up cross-instance, they'll dogpile on it. Sorry about that.)
Consider how many lives this hero saved against how many lives were taken by that vulture capitalist health insurance ghoul that got what was coming to him this week. Look at the language the media uses to talk about the two of them.
Keep that knowledge in the back of your brain whenever you read the news in the future.
High level summary: A bunch of nerds got into a slapfight about who's project is less secure, or who's project is run by the feds. Some guys got doxxed or swatted, a few stepped away from their projects and left social media, and that's about where we are today. It's largely a bunch of clout-chasing nonsense.
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I don't know; can you name three bears that women would feel safer with?