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TʜᴇʀᴀᴘʏGⒶʀʏ⁽ᵗʰᵉʸ‘ᵗʰᵉᵐ⁾
TʜᴇʀᴀᴘʏGⒶʀʏ⁽ᵗʰᵉʸ‘ᵗʰᵉᵐ⁾ @ TherapyGary @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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  • Usually the goal of saying that is simply to hurt your feelings and/or establish themselves as both above you and distinct from you

    If it's said by someone you care about or have to regularly spend time around, it might be worth addressing, though otherwise it's probably best to ignore/block

    If it's the former, deciding how to address it requires first identifying your priorities between:

    • maintaining the relationship
    • maintaining your dignity/self respect
    • achieving an objective

    There's a DBT worksheet series for this that I've used a lot, personally, and have found super helpful

  • I used Signal for virtual sessions during the pandemic (the law allowed it then), and I would absolutely pay them monthly if I could switch back. I even thought about emailing them to ask about a BAA- as far as I know, their model means that it's only paperwork that has to be done to call it hipaa compliant

  • I thought it was gonna be like a controlled image-to-image genai thing but it's actually way cooler

    Edit: lots of other cool tools on here too https://inkei.net/menu/

  • Ofc! It's called the modlog, and it's usually accessible via the footer of every instance, or by appending /modlog to an instance's URL, e.g. https://hexbear.net/modlog

  • To be fair, what Wes said was just plain fact- there's an important distinction between someone with paedophilia and a child molester. But hexbears aren't a fan of facts or other people's feelings, so

  • Lol

    Edit: btw OP, I'm laughing because getting banned from hexbear is very easy to do, and getting unbanned from hexbear is very much not easy to do. It's kinda their whole thing

  • ..rule?

    Jump
  • What on earth is the implication here?

    Edit: I've learned far more about this man's personal life than I wanted to, wtf lmao I feel so bad for his kids

  • Been checking in on it regularly since this post, and looking forward to participating. Will you be allowing memes/unprofessional content?

  • I unironically enjoy that game. A 9 year old showed it to me

  • I think that's just a coincidence

    Edit: This is sarcasm

  • Research life insurance policies, transfer my clients to other providers, and move everything important into my partner's name (car title, utilities, etc) and create a list of all my passwords and such for her.

    Just covering all the logistics would probably take most of the day, and I'd wanna clean and organize all my stuff/our apartment so she's not stuck with that too.

    I'd probably try to get about an hour on the phone with each of my immediate family members while I clean and organize.

    Hopefully I'd have a few hours left to spend with my partner in the evening, which I imagine we'd mostly spend crying together

    Also I'd max out my credit cards on online orders for stuff for my partner, friends, and family

  • Suppose I set up a sample tasting stand with 'Unflavored Jello' and 'Vomit Flavored Jello'

    No one should be surprised when a significant portion of passersby don't stop to taste either

    Suppose half of the people who do stop to taste choose the vomit flavor

    It wouldn't make sense for me to say:

    Statistically speaking, half the people you interact with every day would eat vomit flavored Jello


    Anecdotally, everyone I know who didn't vote has nothing but bad things to say about Trump