You're going to be smelling it the most, so with every recommendation just go smell them and find one you like. I inherited a bottle of Eternity for Men and after trying it a couple times and getting compliments its been my smell ever since. My father really liked Obsession for Men, but it just never smelled right for me.
This actually makes a lot of sense because our cat would always hang out in his room after he'd leave for the day when the cologne smells was fresh.