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  • I'm stoked about the removable controllers, though. I'm gimpy AF so even the steam deck is too heavy. I ended up with a Legion Go and love that I can use it with wireless controllers and the kickstand.

  • I do kind of miss the old internet where everything goes.

    It was fun but it built up to shit like 8chan and kiwi farms. This is why aliens won't talk to us.

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  • I'm guessing his employees are salaried and throwing them a fraction of what they'd be due if hourly is how he assuages whatever he has left of a conscience.

  • I was thinking the same for a similar use case at my job that would nearly cut the number of phones we own in half, but we don't need the stupid toaster to remove and replace the battery. I'm a goddamn cripple and can do that myself.

  • I literally just posted about this earlier today. I used to frequent the Something Awful forums. I know, I know, but I was young and at least it wasn't 4chan.

    About 14 years back, I was having big issues with my partner and wasn't sure what to do, so I asked the forums for relationship advice. I actually got a fair amount of well meaning advice, but also a harasser. They initially just ripped into me in response to my request, but SA was full of trolls so I ignored them. Then they responded to another new comment I made awhile later, but the forums weren't huge. Just a coincidence, right? I continued to ignore them.

    We went camping and got back a few days later. I checked my SA account and found this person had gone through my post history mocking and bullying me and had collected info to try to dox me. I was pretty carefree with what information I disclosed back then and they had a lot. They knew or at least accurately inferred: the name of the small town I lived in, the areas of town we had lived in, the year/make/model of the unusual car my now-ex drove, which university I attended and my major, where I worked and more. This all freaked me out so I reported them.

    The mods' response to my reporting a user for harassing and doxxing me was, and I quote, "LOL faggot". Such fond memories. I quit using SA immediately and worried for weeks that something awful would happen. Pun intended. Luckily nothing did. I have scarcely thought about SA since until someone brought it up here a few hours back.

  • I started by reading "How to Gain Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It's a bit dated but was required for a college course. It helped me realize there were certain actions/routines that would give me consistently okay results with most NTs. Not great, just okay, but okay was a huge improvement.

    That helped alleviate the often crippling anxiety I felt in many social situations with new people. Free to actually think when around NTs who weren't charmed by my ND data dumps, perplexing eye contact, and random obsessions, I was able to actively observe social interactions between myself and others. From there, it was a matter of trying different things and learning to lick my wounds when I blew it. My standard apology for doing something that made someone uncomfortable was along the lines of "I'm so sorry, that came across wrong. What I was trying to convey is (X). I'm not the best communicator sometimes, but I'm working on it. Can we start over? " with direct eye contact and a strong, chagrined, "practiced in the mirror" smile.

    That's the jist of it. Getting over the basic skills and confidence hump is the hardest. Once you have those, it's really no different that practicing a sport or playing a game. It's learning to act but for the purpose of being genuine with those who might not understand your natural inclinations.

  • I actually donate extra to social security since I'm so grateful for the world the boomers made for us!

  • There's a great book called The Tao of Fully Feeling that helped me a ton with this.

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  • I'm learning more by the day that .world's issue with tankies is driven less by any of their actually problematic behavior than by this growing pseudo-mythos where users seem to treat them as a sort of online bogeyman. More often that not, I've seen "the tankies sure are going to hate this!" where no actual tankies ever appear. It's just lazy engagement, plus "tankies" becoming Lemmy-speak for "leftist who I disagree with (or challenges my preconceptions in a way that makes me uncomfortable)".

    Checking out the comment thread, as of the time of this writing, I see one "but US bad too!" moron, a few .ml users with fairly reasoned responses (regardless of if I agree or not), and a few geniuses, including the OP there, looking to start shit and acting surprised when they're called out on it.

  • I'm direct and highly value honesty, but I've learned that's no excuse for lacking tact. Being a minimal degree of kind and polite to neurotypical people isn't particularly difficult, it's just learning to interface with someone whose emotional drivers you may not completely share. It's easier than learning to interface with a nonverbal species like a cat or a parrot.

  • Holy shit, you're right. I've been wondering if/when we'd get a Hindenburg equivalent, but you nailed it. We already have one.

  • I know you know what I mean, so I'm similarly going to also pretend I don't know that and simply state: oof.

  • My wife and I ran the numbers and, in our area, Uber Eats was pulling in about 1/4 to 1/3 the cost of the meal between charges to the restaurant and the customer. We were discussing opening a non-profit delivery service in our area. Turns out it's pretty hard to do.

  • Bad jokes like these make me feel right at 127.0.0.1

  • Aww, thanks! I had just woken up and my brain wasn't functioning. Apparently it was stuck on "everyone is an asshole (including me) mode". I sometimes have to take a deep breath and remind myself that I'm not on Reddit anymore.

    Thanks for being so nice about it. People like you are why I'm here.

  • I'm very sorry. I interpreted your comment entirely incorrectly and my response was snappish and rude. I ought to have given you the benefit of the doubt, but instead lashed out. Many apologies, I'll do better!

  • I'm sorry that you have so little faith in the 10 year olds you know.

    Does your comment have a constructive point or are you simply the sort that looks for technicalities to correct so they might feel smugly satisfied about themselves?

  • They stole referrals. I'll explain like you're 10, it's a bit much for a 5 year old.

    Let's say you watch a video with a link to a product in the description. Normally, when you click that link, a referral code is embedded so the person who made the video gets a referral fee when you make a purchase.

    Honey would remove those referral codes and replace it with their own.

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