The Manosphere is a problem all over the world. Turning men against women is another distraction from the class war. We all need to be turning against billionaires, but it's hard to convince young people/men of that.
Find a way to help that connects with who you are. I pick up litter at the park. I can't fix the worlds problems but don't have to look at the same fast food packet every day for a week whenever I walk my dog.
As far as classics go, Deborah Halpern's The Angel, my profile pic. I'm also fond of all the Mirka Mora stuff around town but I'm biased because I knew her a little.
Good luck, I hope you find a nice group. It's an accepting scene so a few dick heads slip through the cracks. I think I'm twice your age, my connections might be a bit old.
Gin is just what I had available. It's a hot toddy, normally made with whiskey but I'm not a big fan of wood cask spirits. I put it in a thermos to take to a funeral. It was about a 3:2:1 gin:lemon:honey mix. It was sippable but sweet like cordial from the honey. I was putting it in hot water.
One Christmas an aunt gave me a ceramic oil burner cork with some wick through it. Just the cork and wick. No oil. No bottle. I was about ten. Straight to the op shop.
Today I guess an ex rocking up with the gift of a child.
More locally, hoppy hipster IPA beers. I like plain beer: aldi blonde, Heineken, corona, Carlton dry.
I imagine Xi says that to all the leaders.