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  • a couple of years ago, 500 was not really a lot of money . Like I could cover it back in a couple of weeks. today it is. I've deliberately taken a year to work on my transition and health both mental and physical. I'll talk to my very litigant ex lawyer friend and get back to you. The shitty thing is, I loaned her 1000 and was actually going to gift her the whole lot, cos you know, don't loan ya friends money etc and I'd made a bunch selling the house. But she said that wouldn't feel right, so I suggested paying half, which she agreed to and mentioned a bunch of times after. No go deed goes unpunished. Crap thing is it's the last time I'll help a friend financially, cos fuck getting burned twice and the next person might actually be more in need and less of a cunt.

  • Yep, I'm cool and you're cool too.

  • Me too, it's big, it's heavy, its wood.

  • Cool. So someone I bailed out of a sticky situation financially after they had a shit breakup and breakdown has shown their true colours tonight. I've blocked her pretty much everywhere, because she's a bit of a terf it turns out. "Trans women aren't women, they don't any have ovaries." blah blah. But she still owes me 500$. I asked a mutual friend to ask her to contact me. Both he and I spent weeks and weeks in 2021 coaching her back from a terrible breakup. He also had a lot of trouble getting money back from her. Now she's saying I'm poison. Sometimes it costs a lot of money to rid yourself of the parasites in life. The worst thing is she'll be badmouthing me now to any other old friends we have in common and possibly outing to me to people I have nothing to do with for very good reasons.

    Should I take her to small claims court?

  • I was supposed to teach someone "everything" today. It's definitely not rocket science and they did a great job, despite speaking almost no English. I was just impossible to teach them much more than what they could do without training though and I'm still pretty green so yeah, it was touch and go and more stressful than usual, but the new girl showed a bunch of initiative and did a better job than I do in some respects lol. She's so lovely and absolute kudos to my boss to for giving her a job and respecting me enough to guide her. But I get what you're saying, it's a lot. I was just told teach her.

  • Your boss sounds like a vindictive little prick. There I said it. Now you don't have to.

  • I think a neat crossover would be to put the borg into the star wars universe and I'd probably watch it.

  • Tailgaters and slow people in the right lane amiright?

  • Engage. I'll drink tea, earl grey, hot.

  • I'm so glad I don't get allergies. Shoved my face into something floral and the smell was beautiful.

  • also /r/whatswrongwithyourdog is not bad

  • Thank you . I'll post a cat pic cos we all need more of them.

  • I did a faceapp gender change and thank god, he looks awful still. Sorry for being behind the times with the spoiler insert thing. If someone could help I'd appreciate it.

    I obviously have too much time on my hands.

    Also - sorry

  • /r/catswhoyell

    Reddit is still ok for cat content.

  • It;s a pretty deep rabbit hole and you get used to hearing the words it's just melody, darkness. Some of the bands are from ukraine, georgia, belarus etc. so they're stuff is in their own launguage also . I've learned to read cyrillic not very well and it matters not when you don't know the language

  • Ye, I tried that, didn't work for me. Probably ok not reading it. I've got something on at 7 then it's star trek / cat cuddles and bed. Thanks for the tip, I'll probably work out how to use it another time :)

  • Probably just another reason to be cynical about things anyway. The news is quite fucked up today. I'm listening to eastern European goth music to calm my nerves.