My husband is a chef and doesn't cook literally anything, ever, at home. I feed him graciously, as I totally understand why he doesn't want to cook at home, and I love to cook. That's my motivation to cook, I've others to feed, so it's routine. People will joke he must cook for me all the time, but nothing is further from the truth lol
The man would live off crackers and pb&j if he could.
Most recipes I come across online have a "jump to recipe" button. If the recipe is still being annoying, I'll click "print recipe" and work off the preview.
I used to just walk 1.5 hours to work sometimes because it was the same time the bus would take, to only drop me off 75minutes early for my shift, or ten minutes late. So I'd just walk.
My local co op has a machine where it grinds fresh peanuts, $2.99 a pound. Its fire. My husband loves it, my son not so much but he's gettig used to it.
Yeah, that dust is getting on your vulva, I have a bidet too. I prefer papers that are similar to scotts, where there is no dust. That extra soft stuff is aweful.
I'd buy what I wanted and just use it myself if my husband cared.
I just had a talk with my son, 12, this morning about the bad feelings we get when we lie, trick, or cheat and are caught. For me, I explained, it can even physically hurt because my chest tightens. Sometime around when I was my son's age, I decided I wanted to avoid that feeling at all costs, and just stopped trying to lie, or trick, or get away with something wrong, because the risk was never worth it.
I may not be rich, or powerful, or hell even interesting, but I do sleep well at night and nearing middle age, I've more love in my life than I've ever had before. I hope to pass that to my son. Honest man's living is superior.
My neighbor will tell me all about her grown son (who I know as a racist shit bag, and his son bullys mine) is so successful financially, yet in the same breath tells me she doesn't bother wasting money on her garden because she can get free tomatoes from the food bank.
Money doesn't mean one is successful in my opinion. Are they happy? Do they love themselves? Do they treat others kindly? Do the add to their community in positive ways? Do they never take more than they need so that others can have too? That's success.
I prefer to have my conscience clean, and be the brokest person out there, than to lie, sceme, cheat to gain some arbitrary "success".
I believe the two reasons maga gained popularity among the average American are both from fear/hate of people from other cultures(brown folks), as the country I know is still heavily segregated by zip code in most places. And, what really worked well, because anyone can participate, the fear/hate of trans and other lgbtq folks.
The democrats, I'm convinced today are in fact controlled opposition. Who thought pushing.. forcing language like latinx without popular support from the people the name it represents? It was shoved in folks faces, and they were told to support it or they were a bad person. You can't do that without extensive discussion and then having popular support to change it. Niether were done.
The same thing is happening with trans people in sports. There wasn't any discussion about it before it was allowed, no one was prepared. Then, suddenly, people who have never met a trans person in their life, started seeing news headlines about it. There are born women, who are uncomfortable with this, whether or not they are anti trans or an ally, it doesn't matter, because I guarantee you both exist, and they say they are uncomfortable with it. It was another decision that was made without disscussion from the group they represent. Why don't afab women's voices matter in this case? Again, now this pro trans group is telling you are a bad person for not wanting transfolk in sports, even just questioning it, even if otherwise you'd be an ally.
Dem's pushed this stuff, without giving time for culural shift and discussion and imput from the people it would affect, and to make it worse if you voiced an opinion or question it online, even in an honest way, you would be instantly dogpiled and flamed.
I think every republican ad I saw up to the election mentioned trans people. There are tons of folks who have never met a trans person, have no idea what the process is like, leaving a lot of room for imagination. They went hard with the fear in those advertisements, they did a great job in working a mountain out of a molehill. Add in that everyone now has the internet in our pocket, some isolated communities are being exposed to things they otherwise wouldn't have ever seen, driving the fear of the unknown.
Disclaimer I'm pro doing whatever you like for yourself, so long as it hurts no one else, and respects the people around you. Just know it's stated. I tend to think in terms of sociology, and this is simply my observation.
I don't think hobbes here has any integrity with this comment I've responded to, but I do think I've a small grasp on how they got there.
Also, anyone truly convicted of pedophilia shoud spend the rest of thier life in agony. They should not be granted death unless it's from their victims wishes, and they should live in agony for as long as they breathe. I don't care what faction you represent, messing with children is the lowest crime anyone can do and is not punished harshly enough.
There was a drug house across the street from me once. You'd see people in and out all day/night.
One perfect sunday morning, I heard a commotion. Some dude was pissed the dealer stole his money and was trying to bang the door down. It goes on for a bit, until I see the dealer come out the back with a baseball bat, the guy ran off the property to where is car is parked, and called the police on him lmao they called the police on themselves.
Both were arrested. And the drug house was done for, thank goodness. Wildly entertaining.
One of my worst apartment had bedbugs.
Even with my best efforts, they moved with us.
Was finally able to detroy them at the second place, but the livingroom (only room with carpet) had to stay empty for 5 months. I was afraid to even put a couch in there.
Still the worst place for me was a one bedroom apartment on the first floor in the sticks. Small little place in New England. The basement had no insulation, broken window, and access for mice. So many mice, on top of that there was a massive draft in the winter. My power outlets gave off a cold draft. How does a power outlet have cold air come through it? It was $600/month for electric heat, keeping my thermostat at 58. Im still, ten years later, in debt from three winters there. The last summer I was there, the septic backed up into the dooryard. It smelled so bad. The landlord kept trying to bandaid every issue. Until finally she paid for the building to get on sewer, and sold the place as a money pit.
She had the nerve to get mad at me after I moved out because when she pulled up the carpet it was gross under it. That carpet was not new when I moved in. I am so clean, I get massive anxiety if my place is not clean, so I'm anal about it. It was just me and a baby who lived there, like- ugh. Stupid bitch landlord, inherited the place from her father and was in over her head.
I find it really annoying how Communist and Socialist are two words used interchangeably by these people.
They're two very different ideas.
I was at the grocery the day after he won the primary, and I saw the New York Post stack of newspapers, with a sensationalized headline about him. I nearly bought all the copies to throw in the trash-
I've no shame in saying when I had my one and only child over a decade ago, I was vaccine hesitant. Idk if the Internet stuff got to me, or the part of me that likes to keep life natural within reason, or the hormones, whatever-
I didn't vaccinate my baby right away, for anything, because I had fear.
I did however let them give me all the vaccines they wanted after I gave birth. Wooping cough and a few others, I at least understood it was needed to protect the baby I was nursing. When my baby turned one, I put him on a vaccine schedule, made them separate any combinations, and by 3 years of age he was caught up with where he should be.
While I look back now at how foolish I was being, While also understanding hesitancy, it's down right stupid to think vaccines don't work, or are unnecessary. I found a middle ground I was comfortable with. People who just don't vaccinate at all are putting everyone at risk
I've tried the licorice thats made with ammonium chloride.
I love love love, licorice. Theres a store by me that often carries international candies and goods. I saw salty licorice there, and it sounded good, so I bought a little bag of the stuff made in one of the nordic countries, it was a bit ago, I don't remember which one.
Driving home with a piece in my mouth and I taste it. Why do I taste cat piss? Wtf? My face sours, and ammonia comes to mind. My nose flairs, I spit it out. I get home and search up ammonium chloride, which I found on the package lable.
I'm horrified what I find. It is processed with ammonia. WTF
Salty licorice might be good, but y'all can keep the ammonium chloride stuff, I'm good. Taste like cat piss smells
I'm allergic the something they put in mass produced milk chocolate over here I think. Idk what it is, I've no allergies I know of. But if I have a Hershey Kiss, my throat burns a little after, feels painful.
This doesnt happen when I have good dark chocolate, it's only the garbage mass produced chocolate.
US chocolate wasn't always this shitty, but it sure as fuck is now. I doubt there is much actual cocoa in it these days
I don't know how I missed Country Death Song, thank you for sharing! Playing it now. Might have to go through their discog today