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  • It's only fun if it's appreciated by the other party, though.

  • Cute. Thanks for sharing.

  • Hey now, I am not AI. I am a real human.

  • But your SO did like you in all that time?

  • Quick follow up question: What is your idea of flirting?

  • My question isn't so much about whether it's good or not. It's about whether it's generally necessary.

  • Perhaps we have different ideas on what flirting is

    I think we do. I see flirting as banter to make sexual/romantic intentions known.

    but to me, its the things you do to build a connection (talking, joking, hanging out, etc).

    How is that different from making friends though? I mean that's exactly what I do with friends and basically anyone.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    Is flirting redundant?

  • I don't think it's wise to treat people you're romantically interested the exact same you would any other person. That's how I got into this mess, to be honest. I actually feel like if I were more upfront about it I now wouldn't have made this post here.

    stop treating women differently from men

    True and I never have otherwise. But you should absolutely treat people you like differently, at least in the way of what you want with them.

  • Where am I supposed to get a hamster wheel??

    Also, I feel like at that last stage we may as well just remain friends.

  • “that’s all fine but I genuinely begin to develop feelings for her” and “I just don’t really care all that much for a friendship”.

    Okay I may have not worded it very well there. What I mean is that I don't want to be in this "friendzone" any more. I really don't and I don't see myself being happy remaining as such.

  • It's nothing about her not being good enough. It's my own feelings that are in the way.

  • I never said I didn't like her. It's quite the opposite.

  • The problem is that I want more than friendship. It just leaves too much to be desired.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?

  • The template image is in the wrong order! Banned.

  • Before we all die in WW3 I'd just like to say: It's "Oh for fuck's sake."

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    Are your parents "supposed" to be your role models?

  • He should shave his beard and get a slick back.

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    Jump
  • I mean, what sort of a psychopath do you have to be to give a single fuck about working in manufacturing?

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    What are your flirting techniques?

    me_irl @lemmy.ml

    me_irl

    Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    What does it mean to be yourself, while trying to change?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    What does it mean to be yourself, while trying to change?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    How do you show romantic interest in someone?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    How important is flirting within the dating scene?

    Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    How do you subtly ask what someone's hobbies/interests are?