oh yeah, i've heard of a lot toxic behaviour coming from discord but it truly depends on the circles you run in. for the record i had made a brief attempt at dating while on reddit (i know) and that was pretty disastrous.
thanks for the link! it's not quite the full experience i was looking for but it's a step in the right direction and something i certainly hadn't heard of before.
yeah, luckily my partner is a bit of a linux buff so they can help me. they advised against arch which i'm going to take their advice on, so i'll explore other versions (distros?) before i commit.
man i never realised how similar those guys look. but yeah sarah michelle gellar as daphne is a girlboss in the same vein as barbie