Diva (she/her) @ Diva @lemmy.ml

I make electronic music. (she/her) 🏳️‍⚧️

---

Read more

Posts

8

Comments

1,127

Joined

2 yr. ago

Are you trying to say that when you're a misogynist you tend to use misogynistic insults? Because that tracks.

I still don't see how your words aren't bigotry just because you're convinced you have a suitable target.

You never really answered my question directly, why does sucking dick imply a secret/subservient relationship?

“Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn't you say "eating Russian pussy" if you wanted to imply that there's some relationship

It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.

Usually when it's pointed out to me that I'm reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

Reacting defensively to earnest criticism speaks volumes, I'm afraid.

it renders them correctly - I just checked- but it doesn't show the site-specific emoji picker, it just has a default plaintext one:

It won’t drive me to the right exactly,

I get the feeling that you're already there, you just prefer a different aesthetic from the red hats.

Pretty much every client I've used doesn't handle hexbear emojis particularly well, so I stick to browser. I'll give that a try though.

If bigoted language is common in the spaces you frequent that says a lot about what your lived experience has been.

this is why I usually browse Lemmy in new/comments/all, I just wish it had more than one page at a time or the ability to set more posts in one page

Idk what your beef is with that poster but if you provide some background maybe I'll understand what you're referencing.

I do occasionally get some weird vibes outside of /traaa on there, though so far nothing like what you've run into. If you have any names I can look into this, I have mod privileges there and it could help me look out for sus stuff in the future.

Part of why I was interested in helping out there is because their megathreads are actually very active and I saw that whenever stuff like /tttt/ brainwormed shit came up there were lots of posters with actually good views on gender constructs chiming in to combat/explain unhealthy gender expectations.

If making up conspiracies helps you cope with your life that's certainly an approach people take.

I spoke up up to say I didn't like seeing 'allies' using bigoted language and you immediately got defensive which is a huge tell.

You just seem like a centrist extremist looking for an excuse to be homophobic.

Clicking on your moderation history is not stalking, it's literally right in the drop-down next to block user for me, and that was all right the top of your history.

All I said was that I don't like seeing misogynist, homophobic transphobic, or sexual insults being used against even my enemies, because that's not behavior I would want to condone in my allies, or in spaces I participate in.

You seem to have an enormous chip on your shoulder, judging from your response to a trans woman giving her opinion on the matter. Your response was saying I'm mentally ill and a stalker for pointing out your past homophobic and aggressive behavior that's publicly visible and extremely obvious.

I've stuck with lemmy.ml because I like being able to access the trans comms on both hexbear and blahaj, which are defederated from each other.

you don't seem like you handle people disagreeing with you well. you've already called me schizophrenic because I had an issue with your history of homophobic comments, only to be like "well they're people I don't like politiclly so it's okay"

that was my original point, so thank you for demonstrating the behavior I guess

You’re the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it’s people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

You're the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it's people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

That's cool I don't need any more explanations.