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When I was 23 I moved into a sharehouse that had a dishwasher, I lived there over a year before I saw it, it had a false cabinet so it blended in. I'd always just washed my dishes in the sink and I keep all my dishes, cutlery and pans separate in a tub in the pantry because I have allergies. I'd never used a dishwasher before.

I googled how to use a dishwasher because I didn't want to be the 20 year old that can't do basic chores. I read the user manual and looked for the filters and catchment drains. They were filthy so I cleaned them, then followed the stacking guide in the user manual and ran it with a full load of my housemates dishes.

I was very impressed with how clean they came out.

I mentioned it to a housemate who found it very amusing I'd only just discovered the dishwasher, he warned me that it was old and broken and not a very good dishwasher so the few housemates that use it were actually talking about splitting the cost of a replacement if I wanted to get in on it.

Why? When the dishwasher was working perfectly.

All 7 of my housemates flooded into the kitchen to assess the cleanliness of the dishes because no one believed me that the dishwasher worked.

Turns out in the 7 years the house had been used for student housing since the landlords son took over as head tenant, not a single one of the rotating cast of 8 housemates had ever cleaned the secondary catchment filter, and only rarely did someone remember to clean the main filter.

Turns out the dishwasher works great when you remove the months worth of old rotten corn building up in the filter, and drain off the 7 years of muck that's blocking the greywater outlet flow.

My housemates will still say I stack the dishwasher like a sociopath, but I learned from the user manual so I don't care, the dishes are clean.

If she loves organisation, "A Little to the Left" and "Unpacking" are cute.

Stardew Valley is being mentioned a lot and with good reason, there are a lot of elements to that game and you can choose which activities you like most - farming, mining, fighting monsters, foraging, interacting with villagers.

From there you can get a really good idea of what other games could be even better. For example if she loves the social side of Stardew Valley a Japanese Social Sim game might be fun too.

Yeah, might be worth asking the old couple what they think of the new neighbour-tenants, if they seem like they're also not happy, could open a conversation about what they as landlords are planning to do.

But depends if you've ever spoken to the old couple before, and if there are other benefits to moving as well so it's not a big deal.

TL:DR - Ride my bike along a precarious but not terrible inner city suburb of Melbourne Australia. It takes about 10-15 minutes to go 4km. I have the option of a 25 minute riverside bike ride if I'm willing to give up my sleep in.

I live in an "inner suburb" of Melbourne Australia, and I work at a community centre just a few tiny city suburbs away, 4km.

I have an e-bike that I use as my primary vehicle, because of the way my migraine disorder manifests and overlaps with another condition, I can't drive a car. So I've learned how to get by completely carless - living in the inner city suburbs helps so I'm privileged in that regard. But the ebike has been a game changer.

Before covid I had a job about 6km away and I was wasting so much money on buses and uber, it was two buses and an awkward connecting power-walk that meant frequent missed connections and also pushed me just over onto the more expensive ticket because of how our public transport fee system works. So I would lazily uber to work several times a week. And since I was working part time, it wasn't even worth it some days when I had a 2 hour shift. ~40% of my pay cheque would go to ubering to work.

Then covid hit and our state went into lock down. The community centre ran a food bank so my 2 or 3 hour part time shifts became 12 hour days as demand increased but staffing couldn't. I'd always miss the last bus, and uber drivers were few and far between. I tried riding my bike but the 12km return trip was just a bit too far on top of the 12 hour day, so I bought an ebike.

I got a new job, closer, and a very nice ride. I have multiple route options, one of which is a gorgeous separated shared pedestrian-cycle path that follows the local river which I often ride home - I finish at the optimum dog walking time so I get to meet so many puppies on my leisurely ride home. But it's very slow (because of all the dogs which aren't supposed to be off leash, but are) so, my preferred route to work is the fast way. It cuts right through the the town centre, it's an old industrial dock town so it's pretty highly developed but never highly invested in, meaning the roads are horrible and full of trucks. But the council are working on it, and in the last few years they've installed some halfway decent bike infrastructure. The danger is worth the 15 minutes it saves me in the morning.

I'm an IT teacher at a community centre, I genuinely never thought I would see the day when a student younger than me enrolled. I wrongly assumed my role as a public educator would just fade out as younger generations required generally less training around computers.

Obviously courses in disability service centres would remain, and accredited training for people to kick off or retarget their careers would still exist.

But the person at the local library who meets twice a week and teaches grandma how to close the tabs on her phone felt like a job that was destined to die.

I'm in my 30s and this year I have a few teenagers in my class. The conversations are hilarious, they don't know how to read a file location adreess or open a program that isn't pinned to the taskbar, but at the same time, I don't know how to access the notifications bar on an iPhone or quickly find the wifi settings without going through general settings....because I went from windows to 98, to a blackberry, to an Android, just like they went from an ipad toddler to an iPhone teen, and only now are they having Windows 11 thrown at them, and of all the computers to try and learn to use, this wouldn't be my first recommendation (but it's what our government funds us to teach 🤷‍♀️)

The skill divide is so hard to explain too. My elderly students just stare blankly at one screen, overwhelmed and confused, unsure how to recognise anything. Nothing stands out as a link, or a click able button, because the entire visual landscape is new to them. There is often a lot of hand holding which can be frustrating especially when you made a huge breakthrough in their confidence and independence only to have come in the next week feeling insecure about their skills because they've forgotten a little bit, or had a bad spam caller over the weekend who made them want to never touch a computer again.

Then the teens, who know what links look like and generally what they do will rush ahead, they may not know what it is exactly they're trying to do, but they think they know what end result is expected and they generally know how to avoid catastrophic issues so they just barrel ahead, I'll see them make 40 clicks a second for something that usually takes 2, because they're throwing spaghetti at the wall.

I had a project last week. Dead simple. Save a linked file to a target location, import the file into another program through either drag and drop or browsing for the file, then change 1 thing, and export the final file into another target location, as specified on the activity sheet.

Barely 5 minutes in, I'm still helping Brenda get her mouse dongle plugged in, and one of the teens is finished. And yes, they have every file I asked for, and every edit I asked for, but both are just sitting in the downloads folder. And now we're at the end looking back, the teen is confused because they have the edited file that is required to "finish*, how is it wrong, and I'm trying to explain why skipping the steps about target locations means they'll have to start again because this activity is all about target locations and I don't actually give two shits about this file I just need them to put things in and out of a folder until they can explain to me "a folder is a container" and not just stare into space because a folder is a black hole on their phone things they save go to until they need them again and just download them again.

Like how we can reCORD some music and release a a REcord

Or make some COMpost by putting those scraps in the comPOST

Is it a dialect training class? Because otherwise that feels like boarderline racism to penalise someone for having a different an accent.

"Da ta" vs "date-ah" is regional. If you're pronouncing it "wrong" move across the pond and suddenly you'll be right.

Technically they took Aotearoa in the name of Zeeland.

Tell me about it, slept in because I wanted to dodge the worst of the pain, but woke up just feeling irritable and restless. Been trying to do some gentle exercise, the worst of the pain is gone but I'm so lethargic, my limbs feel so heavy, but my mind is racing. I want to go for a jog, but I can't move my neck without intense pain through my whole skull, and I'll probably shit myself if I stray too far from a bathroom. Not how I wanted to spend my last day of annual leave.

On the plus side, there's ice cream in the freezer, I think I will did manage to dodge the attack pain, just dealing with the aftermath now but even if I do get a proper attack - I have one dose of my emergency migraine meds left, and work should be pretty chill this week.

Make sure your using correct form! relaxing the muscle completely after clenching is also important.

Hypertonic pelvic floor disorders can lead to many of the same symptoms as a weak pelvic floor.

Sometimes it's great having life threatening allergies - my whole life I've never trusted food that anyone else has made, I have perfected the art of the polite rejection.

I see things like kitchen sink spaghetti, dishwasher fish, and now dishwasher toilet brush, and I look back at how I've coincidentally dodged all those bullets.

(Growing up, in my house "kitchen sink spaghetti" was sometimes also called "crisper drawer pasta", it was all the wilted, sad vegetables that had been neglected in the fridge. Chopped, roasted, pureed, and served on pasta.... No actual sink involved, we just called it kitchen sink spaghetti because it contained "everything except for the kitchen sink"...so learning that some people genuinely use the bare sink to drain pasta - and not just for click bait and views was disgusting eye opening)

Thank you, British and Irish Islands seems like it would be more easily understood by the general populous. When I hear South Eastern Icelandic Archipelago, I get a bit geographically turned around because I'm an idiot and I picture Iceland near Greenland which is near Canada, and I picture Ireland near England which is near France, so in my tiny brain Ireland and Iceland are a whole ocean apart (even though paleo-geographically, it's the same soil)

Makes sense, as a geographical location I imagine it has had many names over history based on who controls the narrative. Can I ask what other names there are for the area that isn't supportive of British colonialism?

Oh, I think I miscommunicated. I like receiving calls. If someone wants to ask me a question and talk to me, they can physically talk to me, instead of texting me and demanding the same level of attention from a text as they would expect from a real time conversation.

If they call and I don't answer they know I'm busy and to try again later. If I call and do answer, it's easy to say "hey, I gotta make this quick" or "I'm not doing anything, let's have a chat" which is harder to do via text. It makes it easier to lay out the expectation for the interaction. If someone is texting me thinking we're going to be having a long text based chat like we're both sitting down in a live chat forum for the evening, but I'm busy and only occasionally looking at my phone because I don't treat text like it's AOL/MSN/IM, we're going to have a bad time. But if they call me, then it's just easier.

I'm using sync at the moment, I don't dislike it but there is room for improvement. I have very low accessibility needs. I have palsies in my hands so for me it's about having nice big icons to tap, because I don't have the dexterity to push tiny text links or really cramped hit boxes.

My phone GUI is enlarged and sync is just the first third party app I found that scaled well with my phone, most third party apps work for me, it's just the reddit official app that really, really doesn't. It's unreadable with my GUI settings.

Britain is historically just England and Wales, though colloquially now used as a shorter way of saying "Great Britain", which is England, Wales, and Scotland.

The British isles is England, Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland (and all the smaller islands like the Hebrides, Orkneys, etc)

Hmm, should I try getting it a fourth time? 😂

I managed to avoid it until Jan 2023 when I was hit the first time. Completely asymptomatic, I would have had no idea I was infected if it wasn't for the fact I RAT/lat flow tested twice weekly because of my job.

Recovered fine, didn't have any lingering symptoms.

Then in May I started getting a bit run down, my lymphnodes around my neck and jaw were really swollen and inflamed, and I was chronically congested, but not with any mucus or anything, just felt like my sinuses were swollen shut, and in the first week of June I had my second covid infection, still mostly asymptomatic, no cough or anything, just fatigue and headaches.

The headache never really went away. I've had chronic headaches my whole life due to arthritis in my neck, but this was different, more pressure and in a different location.

In September I got Covid again, and since then I have felt so crook. Migraines almost every week, moderate headaches every day from the moment I've wake up to the moment I pass out from exhaustion. The fatigue never went away but I can't sleep anymore. I'll lie in bed for hours but only get ~4 hours sleep a day, sometimes I'll get 8 hours but in multiple naps. I'm thirsty all the time and can't quench it, but I'm not really peeing at all, even less than usual despite drinking more water. Some days I can't keep food down, some days food goes straight through me, there's no middle ground. My lymphnodes are still swollen and now it's all over my body, not just in my jaw and neck. I've had sinus bradycardia since September and dyspnoea (feeling like I need to yawn but can't, like the air in my lungs isn't getting in deep enough), and my nose bleeds every morning.

I've seen my doctor 8 times since June, basic tests have been run and all they can say is "it's stress and long covid"

Im fucking sick of it. I've had to drastically reduce my hours (and pay) at work, and I miss my friends and all the fun active things I used to do.

I'm still managing to get by, but I wish I had a better understanding of why I feel the way I feel. "long covid" feels just as useless as no diagnosis at all.

Exactly, I didn't have a tantrum. I used a third party app because of the accessibility features it offered that the official app doesn't. I can't use reddit now, so I don't use reddit.

Litteraly everyone I know will call me for questions that could easily be a text because they know that on average it takes me 2 days to reply - and that's if I reply at all!

My phone calls are all 5 seconds or less "hey Dilly, are you free Saturday for lunch at ours?" "yeah sounds good" "okay bye"

Saturday is 5 days away, could that have been a text? Yes. But I probably would have only seen it on Sunday if they'd texted me.

I can't drive because I'm visually impaired. I know I'm too visually impaired to drive because I can't even grocery shop properly with my shit eyesight - with a basket, let alone pushing a trolley!

But I pass the eye exams they make you take before you get a license and ive double checked with my optometrist and yes, my vision score is within the legal limits to drive as long as I wear my glasses... It's baffling, because I absolutely should not be driving! I can't see shit!

So I don't drive.

When I say "I'm too blind to drive" some people ask if I can just lie about my vision and fake my way through, because "you really need a licence" and when I explain I can legally get a licence I just don't, for everyone's safety, they act like I'm being a selfish child for not doing the adult thing and getting my licence. Just because it can doesn't mean I should.

I do cycle, pedalling a 20kg frame of metal at 15km/h on a bike path feels a lot safer than driving a 1 tonne hunk of metal at 80km/h on a highway. Without my bike I'd be pretty fucked in terms of my independence and being able to do what needs to be done as an adult. Fortunately my vision isn't degenerative.

But in the last 5 years, especially since 2020 covid locksdowns, I feel like there are more people on the road that shouldn't be. There's just a huge increase in the frequency of "silly mistakes" - people swerving into the bike lane without looking to avoid a speed bump, people running a red turn signal because they're looking at the green straight signal, people merging lanes at dangerously low speeds, no one putting their headlights on in the rain, everyone forgetting to indicate, people stopping more abruptly instead of slowing and anticipating a stop sign, and my personal favourite, everyone cutting corners in residential areas like they're a formula 1 driver, just turning into the oncoming traffic of the street they're turning into.