‘It’s Total Chaos Internally at Meta Right Now’: Employees Protest Zuckerberg’s Anti LGBTQ Changes
What makes this hilarious to me for horny check purposes is the context it was used in.
Thanks Blaze! This looks really interesting. Network effect is a factor in what I'm bitching about, but we've got OK enough general fediverse participation where I am that this could be/get real useful for me.
Appreciate it, and what you do to promote fediverse stuff in general. Said it before and I'll say it again - you're doing good work.
I'm going to tell you my core problem, just to get some feedback/vent a little: i've wanted to end my Facebook account since Cambridge Analytica. I hate the feed. But Facebook has one key thing keeping me locked in at the moment - Events.
Back in the pre and early Facebook stages, there were websites that had well-curated, broadish event calendars for my city. These are now universally dead. Websites dedicated to the local music scene? Also pretty much dead (RIP punkottawa.com). Some have tried to get something going independently in later stages, but all have failed. Even my favourite college radio station, which has folks super tied into the community and local music scene and plug stuff on the air frequently, has pretty much abandoned their community events calendar. The problem gets worse if I'm travelling outside of the city, in that I have no clue where to even start looking effectively outside of Facebook (@ me, Montrealers and Torontonians in particular). Stuff like bandsintown is ok, but misses a lot when you're more into bar gigs than concerts
I've yet to find a non-Facebook approach that captures events I'd be interested in that doesn't miss something. RSS feeds from websites for known gig spaces (either natively or with a web2rss thing) can get part of the way there, but there's been cases of stuff happening at new/unexpected venues (a hot sauce store here, at some point, became a gig venue) that I've only found out about via Facebook. And this ignoring non-music related stuff that occasionally comes up serendipitously.
I've yet to come up with a great solution, and that kinda ticks me off.
I want this is in rural Quebequois or Acadian dialect with reference to either poutine, nun's farts, or poutine râpée. For reasons.
There's a guy at the local punk bar here with a gut and a big ass beard who I've seen multiple times in a crop top and daisy dukes.
Guy looks fantastic.
I feel like I'm forgetting one... whatever.
sad Saskatchewan noises
(S'ok, I can't hear them either over the Scott Moe Killed a Woman Due to Recklessness)
Depends on who exactly you mean, but thinking of the 'high school bullies' of my day in general, mostly prison.
A challenge for you (or anyone interested in taking it up): Once a day, while waiting for public transit, pay attention to the people around you. Does anyone have something interesting about them (hair, clothes, jewelery, weird keychain thing on their phone, etc.)? Ask one identified person about it. See someone who looks like they are on the verge of tears? Ask them "Hey, is everything ok?"
9/10 times you'll have a brief Q-A-back off interaction, but sometimes it'll turn into a longer conversation. Yes, it feels awkward. Yes, in some places you'll come across as rude/uncomfortably weird (keep your dominant culture in mind - you probably wouldn't try this in some place like Finland or something). But I've had some very interesting experiences doing this in the past (usually with the ones who look upset - if you're willing to be a sympathetic ear you might just make that person's day).
Year of the Linux storm.
It's funny you mention tattoos - my favourite part was the huge endorphin rush it produced. I'd wager the whole tattoo 'addiction' thing tattoo artists and the heavily inked are familiar with is usually endorphin based, with aesthetics serving as justification.
You're right about stubbing a toe or biting your tongue, but there are other activities people engage in that involve a direct seeking out of pain (Drag's in this thread talking about an unfortunate one, then there's stuff like certain activities in BDSM play [which, a surprising amount of the time, isn't always a precursor to sex], etc.). With enjoying really, really spicy stuff, there's the stimuli [pain], the endorphin release, and the justification and side effects that may bolster justification ('flavour' even in cases where little is actually detectable beyond 'mouth hot'; satiation after getting food in you, etc.).
I'm just some random guy speculating (I'm sure there's studies somewhere, though tricky to do direct research ethically), but I imagine it goes something like this for a lot of folks in a lot of contexts:
Stimuli -> Pain -> Dopamine release. If dopamine response is greater than pain response, is a good thing (then justified with reference to specific stimuli and context of stimuli). If pain response is greater than dopamine response, is a bad thing.
...reading it back I think specific type of stimuli, context, and the subject's predilections are very relevant to this calculation, but not a psychologist or neurologist, so idk.
Fair enough, I was thinking in more of an adult context. Totally respect your personal preference in that regard.
With teens, it's kind of a combination of factors - lack of space they can privately do whatever intimate thing they please (malls/bleachers/whatever are public spaces, sure, but are places they can easily meet away from parents. They don't necessarily care about the rest of the public), not yet being comfortable with the more fun stuff, and it still feels pretty good (though lower on the total spectrum of good feeling things possible between humans).
I can guarantee there's kids in a mall somewhere making out while we're having the conversation, unaware that they engaging in a dying ritual lumbering its way into the mists of time.
Being a little literal, but I can guarantee someone has said 1, 3, 5, and 7 in the past twenty years. Heck, probably the last year.
Payphones are still a thing in some places and get used - I started doing a thing involving them a yearish ago (it's in my post history if anyone really cares). Literally had someone ask "Hey, are you done with that phone?" as I was jotting down its number, which was shocking. Can confirm where I am they still take coins (it's 50 cents now, unless you're calling a toll-free number).
VHS is making a ... come back isn't really the right word, but there's a small number of folks interested in what's on old tapes they find and some hobbyists swap stuff. And there are still a few video rental places around (though really, really rare - or near places like campsites, catering to folks with cars that still have DVD players or households with spotty internet).
It's all still disappearing, no doubt, but not 100% dead yet.
IIRC it produces endorphins, though for a significant amount of folks not well enough that they'll subject themselves to it.
It's a precursor to the more fun things, ratcheting up the excitement levels for most.
Do people really just dive straight for the clitoris/dick without making out first? Not judging, just literally never considered that as a possibility. Also noted there are other forms of foreplay, but outside of some S&M branched stuff I always figured there was making out somewhere in the mix most of the time.
I caught it, but tensions are high in this thread (I get why), an /s would help a lot.