You know, I was not at all. I guess I figured if fast food wasn't on your direct path (or only very slightly out of the way) it wouldn't even be considered as an option.
I agree we're better off to cut out fast food, but..
How long are the drive thrus you get stuck in? I think the worst I've ever had was 20 minutes and it was because their registers were acting up. The simplest meal at home is definitely 20 minutes unless you're literally only eating plain ramen or cereal. I mean I guess you can make an egg in less than 20 minutes, but that doesn't count the time in the grocery store or dishes?
I think it's fun for other people to dog pile on the "Americans are just lazy" idea and they refuse to consider that if they lived here they too would be forced into some of our grotesque and lazy ways. You said no backpacks allowed, they're like here neither! We had to use heavy backpacks! Completely ignoring your point and all their arguments were like that. Bless you for sticking with it until they finally understood.
Depending on your state, you can! Is your parent dying of cancer and requires constant care? Did you get in a car accident that requires a multiple day hospital stay, and a wound the size of a dinner plate? You too can have a few weeks unpaid leave to recover. Thinking of maternity (or paternity) leave as a sabbatical is a joke.
This is correct, but you still gotta pay rent. You still have to buy groceries. You still have to cook and clean to maintain your life and environment. You need motivation for all that
I'm so nervous I'm going to find out aquaphor is bad. I've been spreading it on my baby's diaper area since they were born. I know she's absorbing it right into her little body. There's been so many articles about how diapers and tampons and pads are all just awful for us and full of lead and who knows what else and we're putting them right against our mucus membranes and just poisoning ourselves.
Yeah, the skinniest couple I know eats candy and taco bell all day long (they're approaching 30 so that teen metabolism is long gone). They're not unusually active or anything, just thin. My husband is thin and has basically zero regard for his diet. Southern amounts of butter on everything. I'm much more careful than him, I enjoy plain veggies as snacks (as opposed to his pastries) and I'm ten pounds more than him at 7 inches shorter than him.
It's my bodily autonomy. I'm a woman of child-bearing age. I even want to make a child sometime in the next four years. I'm risking my health. I can't move. I will end up broke with zero resources in another state, with no job, and my husband will need to start his career from scratch if we move. We just can't afford it. Plus wherever we move, we'll be separated from both our families who are local here. And again, even if we move, wherever we start over could just be red in two election cycles anyway. Moving isn't the answer.
Fleeing my state isn't an option. Besides, my state didn't used to be red. A lot of states flipped or at least went from purple to red. So it's not even a guarantee if you uproot your entire family and life that you get to stay blue.
I feel so demoralized when this comes up, as if it's my own fault I'm living somewhere with terrible laws. I voted. I got other people to vote. I changed a few minds on abortion (not easy to do!). I don't have the money or resources to start somewhere else, and we're all about to have less money.
We (me, spouse and 1 child) rent a big house with my grandmother who I care for. It's 4 bedroom/2 bath, got a kitchen, living room, laundry room, a large dining room and extra living room that used to be a garage. It's my parent's place, while they live in an apartment for work.
The huge place is not worth it. I hate taking care of my grandmother. She has dementia and I'm burned out but we can't afford to live anywhere else.
You know, I was not at all. I guess I figured if fast food wasn't on your direct path (or only very slightly out of the way) it wouldn't even be considered as an option.