I had anger issues and was mad all the time at the dumbest things. The problem was my expectations were unrealistic. By changing my expectations I've solved almost all of my anger issues.
A simple example is teenagers are going to break rules. By not expecting them to be perfect I don't get angry. That doesn't mean the behavior is acceptable and will go unaddressed. Just expect they'll break the rules and be ready for it when they do is all.
They made the activated charcoal by burning coconut and then used coconut oil to increase that flavor. Otherwise I didn't taste anything. I imagine without the oil I'd taste the charcoal and it wouldn't have been very nice.
Your first line made me laugh out loud!
And yes, the enshitification is real.