ArumiOrnaught @ ArumiOrnaught @kbin.social

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I said I was queer and you then list "cishet, gay, lesbian" and some tropes associated with them. Then do one of the funniest unintentional trope for what I am, which would be bi erasure.

You going 'the three sexualities are het,gay, lesbian' made me think of the one meme of "ah yes the [number] genders".

For whatever reason I cannot upload files otherwise I would attach the memes for you. Image search "ah yes the 3 genders" should turn it up for you though.

Me saying that stuff, wasn't me trying to be insulting. It was showing that I know what you're talking about. But it wasn't an attack. Definitely close to seeing a coworker slightly tired and saying something like "you look like you're ready to run a marathon."

You give me a mild insult, one that I'm used to, and even the "in group" I'm a part of on the Internet also will make similar jokes about themselves. Then I just repeated what you said to me but applied to you.

You're mad at a mirror. And if you wanted me to believe you then you wouldn't have done it a second time.

The need to remind people is a certain lack of care of the people needing reminded. Like reminding people "hey don't drink and drive" I honestly don't think that helps out much. I feel like cigarettes packaging outside US does actually help though.

For example: if someone with a fundamentalist church was harassing me, would I rather my boss protect me, or them say "it's not a big deal". How many times do you need reminding to not drink a drive. I'm sure they know to not do it, but at the root of it they don't care. Reminding them won't change anything.

Don’t you think cishet...gay... lesbian

Ayy you're doing the thing :D I'm none of them, I'm also mostly just ribbing you. 3 types of Jewish people: Rabbi's, Brooklyn mom's, and John Stewart.

Now imagine if they also think your allegiance is to another nation.

Sure, maybe not another nation. But actively trying to destroy 'merica to create a "gay nation". I 100% believe people act differently, but I believe that's something they don't believe in. Where your situation I can see people believing in that, which is worse.

Let me rephrase my first attempt. "Do you think treating the symptoms will help fix the root problems or at least help the pain? Are you wasting time/effort/mental bandwidth on something that ultimately won't help? Is there a better way of dealing with this?" And those are honest questions. You do have a different situation than me.

I don't disagree with you, and as a queer person believe me when I say I do understand how media coverage puts a target on your back.

The one part I do disagree with is the people need to be reminded. Like imagine walking up to David Duke and reminding him that Jewish people are his neighbors. While I want to watch that, I don't think it would end well. How's that one meme go? There are two races, white and political. Two genders, male and political. Two religions. Etc etc. I dislike the "need to remind" because the implications is that it's fine to not be normalized. I know that's probably not what you're going for, but small things like that do matter. Like when someone threatens to kill me I can just add that to the pile, but when someone I know says they're "normal" it just means I'm excluded, part of a permanent out group. That makes me leagues more upset.

What? Nazis have been doing this since their creation. This isn't something that just started because Israel wants to do a "totally not genocide trust me bro".

Honestly I'm glad they're dumb enough to use spray paint on the side of the Holocaust museum...again. It's easy enough to clean and they're not destroying anything.

This happens so often I had to double check it was a new article.

As long as Nazis exist Jewish people will always be the target of their bigotry. So I guess I don't understand where you are coming from.

Idk man, a lot of sea bugs have more leg and I want them in my mouth.

Tbf, roaches I feel would be covered under his "bad or dangerous" clause.

I've picked up wolf spiders before, but if there is a black widow inside I'll smash it. Can't risk them harming me or the ones I look after.

They can also change things, like idle speed. You also need one for any form of electric vehicle.

4some is better, you can go for longer because brakes are possible.

Also never have a 3some with straight people. They have expectations that will never hold up to reality.

I don't think I've stopped in the middle of something without planning on coming back. If something is difficult I'm more likely to do better the next day.

But something that I know I would not have fun with is platinum any Yakuza game. And honestly, I'm glad this game taught me to not worry about not completing things I don't care about.

If you're unattractive all you need to do is be a decent person. Not a "nice guy", but someone who brings something to the relationship. If all you're seeking is a fuck maid, then you better be rich. If you want an actual relationship then become someone that someone would date. It really isn't a hard concept, billions of people have done it. The person I'm with dated models before me.

If you can't even put in the bare minimum in a relationship, then you don't deserve one.

In the 1960's you could buy around 21 burgers with an hours worth of work for average salary.

I know people with 3 homes because they bought them for $5 and a stick of gum.

car repairs

At least change your own oil. If you don't have tools I know a few part stores will let you borrow them.

I'll watch later. I hope it isn't the same thing as Steven Pinker's "things are better than ever".

I'm also going to disagree on the "things make us happier" argument as well. Because if you're only getting things because they flaunt your wealth, it isn't making you happier.

Ass on the toilet, face in the tub. I was in the bathroom from around 9pm to 4am.

(they removed referencing how Comedy is "being choked out")Comedy is making more money than ever. you need to be not vague if you want to be impactful. You know...make a point. I feel like I was just complaining about people virtue signaling without making points. Would you like to try again?

If comedy is being ruined by anyone it is by the group of people who think it's patriotic, or morally praiseworthy to be offensive without a point.

If you're offensive without a point you're just an asshole.

These people have 2 jokes "I identify as" and "let's go Brandon".

Everything else is just going "biden sucks, left sucks, trans people make my pepe hard and I'm confused by it". It isn't "funny" unless you already agree with everything they do. And even then I'd say it isn't a joke just people getting release for being pandered to. Conservative thought porn.

Most jokes are not funny. Most comedians are not funny. I haven't seen anyone who advertises themselves as to the right of Biden make any jokes.

The main problem I think most people have with "conservative humor" isn't the fact it exists, but how aggressive they are in "advertising". It's basically trying to advertise straight porn in a gay night club and then calling everyone there a degenerate and deserve to be killed for not having the same fetish as you. Then after that bad experience they complain that they aren't allowed back into the club. They aren't a free speech warrior, they're pieces of shit complaining that the 1st amendment also means that people don't have to listen to their hate.

He isn't just wrong. That isn't strong enough.

He is layers of wrong. He is wrong on his conclusions and facts. If all you're doing is defending his (wrong) conclusions off of his "facts" it would take millennia to explain why he's wrong.

Enough of his "facts" are wrong that anyone serious shouldn't take him seriously.

He is as serious as a 2015 BuzzFeed listicle.

You seem young. Find a hobby that takes you out of your house.

With statements like these it feels like you're not trying to change the situation. It feels like all you're trying to do is tear down this person, who is pretty obvious having moral issues over this thing.

If your goal is to help homeless people you're doing a shit job.

If you're trying to induce apathy, no notes. You're doing a bang up job.

I caught that :D not sars, not COVID. Mucus runs down your throat while you sleep. Not fun.