But, add the kind of society we live in where social status is measured through money and how you look, plus the overall state of IQ in the population, which is getting lower and lower, and... well, you really can't expect much else from the general population π€·. Sure, there are exceptions, but they're so little, they're either taken or you just don't meet any of them in real life.
Because most people nowadays see everything as a transaction, including "love". You really can't expect anything else in a society that sees everything through the prism of money.
And the fact that they'd rather troubleshoot Arch with a girl than anything else... and 90% of women would put up with those requests, BUT only if you make a lot of money.
Sorry for being blunt.