Is it true that femboys are "fetishized" by right-wingers or something like that? Or is my friend(who told me this) tripping balls?
I don't think it's widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I'm hyperhorny, like the only reason I'm femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as "failed males" and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There's also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical "slut" that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.
I'm very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn't feel safe going femmode outside.
What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?
Just an effeminate man. I don't know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I'd say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you're probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.
Boy in skirt. Often a half-closeted trans woman, but not necessarily so.
Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.
Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.
Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.
I don't know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.
"It's not gay if they look like a girl" basically.
I think it's more like, "I'm not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I'm gay if I suck his."
To Republicans, being "gay" and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It's why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.
This is absolutely a real trend suppted by data
https://lawsuit.org/general-law/republicans-have-an-obsession-with-transgender-pornography/
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/pornhub-reports-explosion-searches-transgender-194508061.html
Conservative areas are more religious, and Christianity uses sexual shame and repression as a control mechanism. A trans attracted Christian is trained to hate them but still think trans people are attractive.
He probably has a point.
https://www.newsweek.com/grindr-app-crashes-milwaukee-rnc-1927750
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They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.
The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.
Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or "dgaf" about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.
I think it's true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.
Yeah for sure lol. It's kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than "forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires"?
I think femininity itself is the more fetishized component, so it just means the femboy is successfully femming.
Especially when you consider how right wingers tend to interpret gender roles.
They're about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.
usually someone more attractive or well built too.
I think this is true for a lot of prejudices. Pron sites have released data showing deep red states where one might imagine more racist people live searching for interracial videos.
4chan has a lot of gay/trans porn for how right they slant.
*had
They are back.
I'd say that 4chan is among the main reasons for many of my "weird" kinks and femboys absolutely are among those. Seems to align with my assumed political leanings too.
Kinks transcend political ideology. Roger Stone was famously into getting cuckold.
Yes, it's true in some cases.
It's not really that surprising. Just as there are straight men who are misogynist there are people who are attracted to femboys, trans people, and/or other gender nonconforming people who hold prejudices against the same group. It's massively oversimplifying human psychology to think it just comes down to a single linear axis of like/dislike. For some people, it might be that simple, but it's not always the case.
Take the song Hellfire and replace Esmeralda with a femboy, everything else can stay the same.
Instead of simply accepting that one might be attracted to a spectrum of different kinds of people, they immediately feel internal guilt, directed outwards as hatred, because it might give them some sort of label they've been trained to despise.
projection.
they are more into transporn and gayporn than femboys. they also tend to seek out more extreme porn and deviancies, because of thier repression. pedophelia, beastility is strangely common amongst conservatives.
the episode of american dad where STAN finds his kink, hes portrayed as an uptight conservative man, but when roger help him release his sexuality, he couldnt stop, he went and more extreme.
Your friend is pulling "facts" out of their ass.
I sent him a screenshot of this comment and he told me that you and me should both touch grass.
Lol he mad
Ironic, because everyone that was familiar with the hellsite formerly known as 4chan both knows the statement is true and doesn't touch grass.
Tbh I think most people on Lemmy need to touch grass more often ¯°_o)/¯ Your friend sounds alright, for someone who pulls "facts" out of his ass. 😂
Can I smoke grass instead?
It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn't seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.
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Cool, so you found what.....6 people who might possibly be gay or like some strange stuff? And that then means that all "right-wingers" are the same? So if I was to find say 6 instances of a left-winger being a pedo, does that mean that all left-wingers are pedos?
Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.
So much temptation, I must ban EVERYTHING that makes me horny!!!
Mega Frollo energy
I mean it's the logical conclusion of "everything the right says is projection"
If a right winger wants to ban something you can find as a category on pornhub, that's what they've been clicking.
Yup, as a trans person I have personally experienced this