Okay so like, 1% of nonbinary people don't identify as trans but it's generally accepted considered part of the trans umbrella and it's fucked up to the vast majority of nonbinary people to say they arent trans... esp when there are tons of asshole transmeds trying to say that.
You are the one listing off all the ways you are well off ... and then calling me jealous. It's kind of an embarrassing thing for you resort to but I think that's what you need to feel good about yourself. Literally the classic last resort is to call people jealous haters 😂
You are making assumptions about my ability to budget? You are saying I'll live in poverty? How about instead of trying to impress people online about your money, and trying to convince a leftist that you're a good guy, why don't you learn about solidarity. You're now talking about how you think you know your place in the social hierarchy? Like everything you say is just an admission of your allegiance to inequality.
I highly doubt that the work you do is worth the exponentially higher amount than other people, the amount that would be required for that to be your sole source of wealth. You have not taken any time to evaluate your actual place in the world, and who is suffering as a result of whatever your work is. So yeah you're dumb as hell and the only thing you have to say about it is "blah blah blah you poor jealous hater 😤"
Your lifestyle is a wealthy lifestyle. The "middle class" is something that only briefly existed in the 1950s, did not exist before that, and was quickly taken out. Look at actual numbers and not an outdated idealization.
You're telling on yourself here ... you think wealth is associated with success. I think success is when a society has taken care of everyone. You think I am just critical because I am jealous? I don't want your lifestyle, I want for everyone to have what they need and not live in excess like you do. I am critical because you downplay your privilege and then look down on others. Conservative, bootstraps way of thinking. You are benefiting from a system that requires impoverishment of other people, and you aren't even willing to name your place in that system.
If your lifestyle is as you claim, then driving a broken down Ford sounds like a choice whereas for others, it would not be. If I were seriously concerned about my broken down car, I would not pick up thousand dollar tabs. And earlier you tried to gloat about having a couple of nice cars, going on vacation, living in a big house? One moment you're bragging about your wealth, the next you are downplaying it. Dumbass. You are avoiding critical thinking because you know it makes you look bad.
You are literally amongst the wealthiest people and are trying to create your own categories. Not working on me, and you barely seem like you're convincing yourself.
You can't pay a mortgage until you have a down payment ... and even with a down payment...
Do you know what house I could afford for that much in my area? A house in a trailer park where I would still be paying rent.
You're acting all superior but you literally can't handle basic math.
And you're saying I could just move to another area ... I don't want to. As an trans person, I will simply not be leaving. It is very easy to access healthcare and services in my area. And my quality of life would tank even if I wasn't trans ... my job is tied to living where I do, most of my community is here... anywhere I could actually afford would not be a pleasant place to live. But yeah, if you want to own a home in bumfuck Idaho, sure. I won't be, because I think enjoying my life is more important than a deed.
Oh shit, must have forgot that $200/month could buy me a house. Damn. Also don't see where I mentioned that as anything other than an aspirational splurge. Also ... it takes me way longer than 15 min to do laundry, esp because I have ADHD and a hard time keeping track of timing loads, and folding usually takes up to an hour. But I realize you're too fucking dumb to know what a disability is.
Not to mention... what is the point of owning a house I'll be paying my mortgage off on until I die? I'm gonna bring the house to the grave?
The luxury apartments are all well out of my price range, anyway ... those tend to be $2k.
Housing is way too expensive in my area for it to be a good investment. Another commenter explained below, but housing is so expensive here that it is potentially better to invest money rather than buy a house. To even be able to afford $2500 a month... that's like $100k salary?? If I did that at my salary, I would stop being able to afford basic necessities ... any emergency health/repair funds would be financially catastrophic, and it would not be worth the hit to my quality of life. Not to mention you need like 100k just for a down payment. You see my income... if I took the cheap rental and invested my savings it would still take 10 years to make that, at which point I would be 40 years old and the houses would probably cost even more. I'd have to work until I was 70 with the typical 30 year loan. You must realize that this financial advice is very entitled.
But yes, I agree that investing the money I save through cheaper housing would be a good move.
The millenials I know who own a home all have support from their families, anyone else I know who is even close to being able to afford a house has VA benefits. Although I and my friends are all younger millennials. The cohort encompassing people in their late twenties as well as people in their early forties means it's kind of useless for a lot of generalizations. Younger millennials/Gen Z are increasingly unlikely to afford a home.
You should still recognize that you are in the top 2%, and are wealthy. Poorer people look at what other people are spending money on because it's unfair that so many people can't afford the basics. You have to look around to understand the situation. You sound like you don't other people looking at you... trying to downplay your weath as "well-to-do" or "upper middle class", which we all know are euphemisms. It's ridiculous that you would think of yourself as not wealthy, but also not think twice about a $1000 tab.
I think it's both. There is a lot of NIMBYism and local homeowners like to vote against affordable housing. And of course, the homeowners are all old and retired and have time to harass city councils.
in what way was I an asshole in this comment exchange? pointing out transphobic behavior? I can live with that