All my friends and coworkers didn’t start a family until their 30s. Unless their parents were rich and therefore were immune to challenges in life.
I have never heard someone have this experience, however it is something you need to get used to and get better at. After about a week of getting used to it I have never seen poop on the toilet paper at all.
By a bidet attachment for your toilet right now. It’s like $25 and you can install it in 30 minutes. Wouldn’t you pay $25 to never have to wipe your ass again? Go do it.
Gen X here. Couldn’t buy a house until I was 35.