weeeeum @ weeeeum @lemmy.world

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My mom signs up for a lot of sketchy shit and has been pwned like 30 times across her emails.

My main problem is that she is CONSTANTLY changing passwords. I try to teach her how to use her passwords manager, and have a printout in the vault, but she is too lazy to get the password, and type it in. She is too lazy to even track the new password she makes.

Ugh I hate whenever something goes wrong the blame is always placed on the last guy who worked on it. If you ever build a PC for someone, you better believe you are gonna be tech support for that thing FOREVER.

I'd understand if you had issues immediately, or days after, but if its been weeks, months or even years? Gtfo. Thats longer than most free warranties.

Hes observing me

Yeah. I forgot to tell you her Nickname is nutz. My friend is chinese and with their family it sounds like they're saying "nats" and I think it's really funny

*also coconuts. I dont know why its plural

Sometimes my sister and pinto like to chase eachother 😆. I'll see my sister chase pinto into her room, and pinto chase her out hahaha.

Its also so funny you describe bitty as a wiggler. I need to use that word more.

Pinto plays fetch, kind of. Sometimes if you throw something, he'll pounce on it and murder it but other times he'll watch you throw it, and look at you like you're an idiot

How does zombii fight?

I dont feel like government forms and taxes are any more intuitive.

Honestly even though she is pretty abusive, she's told me that I'm the sole beneficiary in he trust. My sisters went no contact and she's divorced.

With how much money she has, and how easily she gets hacked and scammed, I dont trust using single passwords. She also makes accounts for EVERYTHING. She even had an account for a fucking calculator. With the variety of stuff she makes accounts for, I wouldn't trust a single password.

What if we all pretended to be women because such harassment to a sufficiently wide audience would be extremely isolating

My mom.just keeps talking and talking even when I'm trying to focus on something. Eventually she starts yelling at me to take them out and that I'm very rude for not listening.

I live I a place with crazy high rents and my only other option would be homelessness. Im still in training/education, and if I had to stop, id never be able to get better paying job and I'd be a wageslave the rest of my life.

Honestly we are relatively upperclass, and after some financial lessons I realize its so fucking expensive to be poor.

Is this satire? I genuinely cannot tell anymore

Again, she has trouble keeping track of things. Ive given her a printout with her passwords and she loses the paper, and doesnt know how to print it, or is straight up too lazy to type in a long complicated password, so she just makes a new random one.

She can't even keep track of the new passwords she makes, so I dont think this would make a very big difference

Having me put in as her caretaker might be a really good idea. I do basically everything, and soon I'll be doing all of the driving, since her own ability is highly diminished. She is a total control freak. Even though I have been living here for like 3 years, and cooking everything, she still doesn't let me organize the kitchen the way I'd like to. She has so much random crap that she puts everywhere. We have a dozen pots and pans but only use 3. She also buys EVERYTHING in bulk, so there is always so much shit everywhere. BUYING 100 ROLLS OF TOILET PAPER DOESN'T SAVE THAT MUCH MONEY.

She also loves to collect tons of free food from pantry's and stuff them into the fridge or home pantry as if it's a bottomless pit. She always thinks "more food, more better" but it just leads to ingredients that I never use cause its 2feet behind tons of random shit. Sorry for the rant. I need it.

Ok, make sure not to change the password again, and use your password manager.

She can get past the master password, but she can't comprehend finding the password for the correct service, copying it, and pasting it. I don't really know why she can't scroll down the list to find "CVS" and copy the password, but she can't.

I'm looking for a system that a baby could use.

Yeah, she definitely has that problem of refusing to learn anything. She has a really terrible mindset, that now shes retired, she's never gonna bother to learn anything cause shes gonna die anyway. It's extremely frustrating to deal with because she's completely helpless.

Well I also cook everything, grocery shop and fix everything (basic electrical, plumbing, woodworking, installations, etc). It's not even the IT gripe, it's that she ALWAYS resets her password, doesn't keep it, and expects me to fix it. Its that she breaks it, and makes me fix it.

Can you do this? I've tried setting other passwords managers as default, but it seems like with apple's fuckery, they only allow you to use the internal manager.

Yep. She CANNOT copy and paste. I've tried to teach her, long hold and tap copy, hold and tap paste, but it just doesn't click.