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  • OP has a point

    An upvote you mean?

  • It said wrong answers only, buddy 😄

  • No, because, obviously I made it, everyone's believing the story that I built by faking, except myself. I never allowed my true self to be seen

    Edit: I'm arguing here, because I need to understand that I made it, I need to speak it, voice it and dare to let my true self be seen since I obviously made it. Get it? If I never hear that I made it, I'll doubt forever that I made it

  • I have a job, but who talks to a depressed looking person? And when I'm using my fake happy-mask, there's not much real connection going to be be built.

    Worse with forcing myself to be in a place where I don't even have a purpose that I can focus on to distract myself from my despair (and shame).

    Thankyou for the response.

  • Thankyou. Simple and practical answer

    Edit ::: spoiler intrusive thought Why is it not okay for the world if I want to be a part of it as well?? Why am I not allowed to … also be?? I'm acceptable as in Ya know, you're awesome, but please just stay "over there", don't sit or come too close to me yeah, okay? Thankyou 😬

    Or am I just fooling myself with this??? :::

  • Maybe with

    Well then please give me the chance to doubt you, please allow me to doubt you, ... for three months. To learn through your consistency that I'm in a different world now! Please. I need it ❤️

    It's a tough question, honestly... I don't know how to answer it actually 😭 ::: spoiler spoiler shit's too real

    If I doubted them, that behavior is unacceptable to me. Like, right a couple of hours ago - I thought how could I doubt them, what kind of ... who'd do such an "evil" thing?! maybe they do have my trust already, otherwise I wouldn't try to process my trauma with them 🙈 I can't stand myself causing even the littlest annoyance in anyone's world :::

  • Thankyou for saying this ❤️ that brought tears to my eyes

  • Well I'm causing a lot of grief by trying to heal and struggling through the emotional&mental confusion I have from past things, and I'm hurting them because I'm doubting them, and it feels so horrible to me to experience myself that way so that I think/feel How dare you u/TheLemming, that you don't trust those exact people that already invested so much effort into you!?!! How Dare You!!

  • Please tag me when answering to this, thankyou

  • It's not barrier free though, but that's good in this case

  • I think there's a misunderstanding. What you're talking about OP is the interface, what the others are talking about is the location. You're not talking about the same thing, hence you're not understanding them.

    Both sides are use the term offline/online, tho its meaning is not looks but instead location

  • Yes, but not the other way around

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