Again, when you can show me a cryptobro concentration lower than 99.44%, I'll take nostr seriously. And when you can show it not turning into a Hellhole worse than Xhitter and Farcebook combined because of the very philosophy underpinning it, then I'll think it's actually worth looking at. (Hint: this is not possible.)
Until then I'll call it what it is: a place for cryptobros to wank to their faux-libertarian fantasies.
EDIT: hmmmmmm, it seems as if my UNPOPULAR OPINION, which I posted in the place for UNPOPULAR OPINIONS is immediately proving to be pretty UNPOPULAR. Please keep this in mind, when you’re getting ready to type your personal attacks.
I wonder if it's your opinion that's causing the attacks or the expression of it...? (Hint: it's the latter.)
You don't like the Muppets. We get it. Great. Nobody is expected to like everything by anybody who's sane. For example I can't fucking stand Doctor Who. I hated it as a child and I hate it more as an adult. I also hated Star Trek: The Next Generation onward in the Trek canon ... except I kinda liked Enterprise. (Not loved. Kinda liked.)
But...
You see how I expressed that I can't stand these shows? Notice how I didn't at any point say that people who liked them are my inferiors for it? Let's take a look at your performance now:
...none of that shit is appealing to adults. At least, it shouldn’t be.
Ooh! Strike one! Expressing BadWrongFun™. Right there you've got the reason your "opinion" is getting personal attacks. YOU FUCKING STARTED IT!
...a large number of people were simultaneously afraid that they were missing the joke, missing references, missing SOMETHING, and they didn’t want to be seen as stupid, soooooo they agreed with the small number of shitheads, who were like “BRILLIANT! THIS IS GOING TO CHANGE PUPPETRY FOREVER!”
YOU didn't get it so anybody who likes it must be doing it for fake reasons. After all they can't possibly like something you don't! It must be faked! (Or shitheads.)
Yeah, I wonder why you're getting personal attacks?
The only SENSIBLE reason that the fucking Muppets are actually beloved is that people in the English-speaking world all watched Sesame Street...
And more insulting reasons for people liking something you don't. Yeah, there's absolutely no reason why anybody would reach for personal attacks after your expression of your opinion.
Stop lionizing a deeply and pathetically unfunny, uninteresting man, just because he died tragically.
Except of course he was beloved long before he died. So not only do you suck at not being an offensive, yet somehow whiny, twat, you also have no clue how "time" works.
So, here's a thought: if you're going to break out the flamethrowers, don't be whining when people toss fire back at you. Or maybe, just maybe, you could try expressing the opinion you have without the insulting takes on those who disagree with it, without ascribing motive with no evidence (because "proof by lack of imagination" is actually a logical fallacy), and with at least some hint displayed of knowing what "time" is and how it works.
I'm not saying that "you can't make this complaint because you made an account here". I'm saying "only an idiot can make this complaint because this is how all distributed systems work without exception". There isn't a single system out there that is connected to anything outside of itself that isn't susceptible at some level or another to exactly what the OP is complaining about.
This includes the router you have between you and the Internet at large.
EVERY distributed system retains copies somewhere for some duration. And ANY of them can be (pretty trivially) modified to just retain everything for as long as there is storage to hold it. If you want privacy you're going to need end-to-end cryptography, but that means no discussion sites like this.
So my objection to the OP's complaint is that it's just stupid. Because it applies to literally every piece of technology they likely use to post the complaint, but for some reason it's Lemmy that's being singled out.
It is impossible. Flatly impossible. Because you cannot see if they've really deleted it or not. You can rely on a "data processing agreement" which, together with $50, will buy you a small cup of coffee at Starbucks.
I federate with you here from China. I will agree to anything you like. And I will just attach an array of 16×16TB hard drives to slurp up all the data you send me. How will you know this is happening?
You can't. It is impossible for you to know until it's too late and I've used it for whatever purpose profits me.
An individual server admin can only ensure the data's existence or lack thereof on their own server. Anything else presumes (rather stupidly) that bad faith actors don't exist.
Short of having someone inspect the databases, they can't. The GDPR is a threat, basically, that says "if (or, rather, when) the truth outs, we can nail you later". Which is why it's really only effective on big players anyway.
I have a ridiculous judgement against me in Germany. (Complicated shenanigans around an inheritance where the authorities' legal representatives did shady shit specifically to unload an estate that would have cost them.) Technically I owe the city of Frankfurt something like 50,000€ in fines.
I'm comfortable with this.
Why?
Because good fucking luck enforcing a European fine on a Canadian citizen resident in China. Even if they catch me out when I visit Germany (which I have done a couple of times without incident since the judgement was levied against me), watch the judge make grumpy-faces at attorneys who sent legal documents in German to a Canadian in China whose repeated requests for translated versions was denied. Their case will vanish in a puff of legal sanctions and I'll make fucking sure on top of it that it becomes a press circus.
EU types are almost as bad as American types for thinking their laws are extraterritorial. I love rubbing the fact that they aren't in their faces.
Lemmy isn't my favourite platform. Not even close. I'm not sure it's even in my top ten.
What I am attacking is the rampant ignorance over a fundamental aspect of technology. A distributed system by its very nature has copies. Sometimes the copies last for a few milliseconds (think your router) and sometimes the copies last effectively forever (think the Internet Archive). And there is nothing you as the user can do to change this. There is also nothing that prevents someone from making the delete side of things not delete things. (Yes, this includes your router. How do you think "wiretaps" of modern digital communications systems work?)
In the case of ActivityPub this is even more egregious a level of ignorance. The entire point of federated software is to copy and spread content, so if you have even half a brain cell you're going to have to know that there will be copies of everything you've ever posted on servers other than the one you posted it to. And yet we have stupid twats like the OP whining about the GDPR as if it is even slightly meaningful in a distributed system that crosses outside of EU's jurisdiction.
You know, I think I'm going to make some software that just siphons every ActivityPub message (ignoring delete requests except to log them) and call it "GDPR THIS". The amount of mysticism and confusion around two very basic concepts (ActivityPub works by copying profusely, and the GDPR has no weight outside of the EU) just leaves me baffled here.
Lemmy is software. lemmy.ml is a server. The devs of Lemmy can't be fined unless specifically the server they operate (lemmy.ml, recall) is doing something against the GDPR.
There is more than Lemmy in this picture. You're on kbin. There's dozens of other servers based on ActivityPub out there, all of which can be breaking the GDPR. This non-problem is not related to Lemmy. It's the foundational architecture of ActivityPub. (And HTTP, incidentally. And XMPP. And and and and... Literally every distributed protocol ever made or that ever will be made has this non-problem.
The things people are complaining about here may not actually even be covered by GDPR.
Build fifteen minute cities, in short. I live in one, for all practical purposes, and it's GRAND!