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  • If I can reach it it's here, and if I have to point it's there

  • Sorry liberal, "nuh uh you're the one!" is grade school tactics. You have to be much more advanced to use that effectively.

  • Fun fact, SLS is the chemical that makes orange juice taste so bad after brushing your teeth.

  • Sounds like next there should be fourteen votes in favor of ignoring what the US wants now and moving forward.

  • You haven't lived until you've had a glass of boxer milk with your chihuahua bacon

  • They would consider you whichever one allows them to hurt you in the moment. It's not an honest belief, they just want to be cruel to people.

  • Staple a tarp to the ceiling so it hangs down in front

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this, even with support coping with a divorce and abuse is an extremely tall order. I've not been through that exactly, but as someone who's been cheated on before, and has been hospitalized for suicidal ideation a couple of times, just know that she doesn't deserve that degree of control over you. You're worth more than that, and suicide isn't a good answer. Pain is not worth your long term happiness, no matter what it tells you. I know it's hard in your darkest moments, but you have to push back.

    I'm glad you're in counseling, don't be afraid if you need to get with a psych and get medication to help more, even just short term to get you over the hump. Not saying you need to, I just know some people are reluctant to take meds, but they can help sometimes.

    I hope they come around though. You deserve support, and it's shitty that your friends aren't helping. This is a bit rambly, I guess the core message is you're worthwhile, you aren't a bad person, and suicide isn't a good solution.

  • I was in my early twenties, and having a fight with my husband over dishes. I was sick of always being the one to do them, and demanded he take a turn. He didn't want to, so I simply declared i wasn't going to do dishes again until he did a load.

    I held fast. It took two months, but he finally did the dishes, which involved throwing a lot of moldy stuff away. He's much better about helping with dishes now lol

  • This is too relatable lmao

  • I've been trying to get back into DDR! Great call, that didn't even occur to me when I made this thread lol. I found an arcade near me with a machine, but I've lost so much stamina I die after one set so it's been hard to improve. Mat just arrived though, so hopefully playing at home helps!

  • Sorry, I totally wasn't trying to be dismissive either, but I think it came across like that. When depression gets bad it's just hard to find anything enjoyable, and sticking with it anyway is real hard. I'll just have to keep at it until something clicks I guess.

  • Now they need to just stop abusing horses for sport and it'll be great

  • I use I unless I'm insulting or denigrating myself, then it's usually you

  • Not wrong per se, but you'll end up with more inconsistently sized pieces if you don't do those initial cuts in my experience

  • Probably still preferable to a short life of torture before being murdered.