No you're not wrong for wanting to keep your dad in your life. Any reputable family counselor would say your mom shouldn't be asking you to pick a side. Your mom does need support though, but it isn't your job. What your dad did sounds really hurtful to her, as it would be for most people. Maybe he is your best friend, but being a parent is more than being a friend. It means being a role model & wanting to teach things like honesty & respect, especially for the people you're supposed to love.
Has your dad offered to pay for counseling for you to process these things & talk to a professional about? It sounds like you could probably use it. I don't know how old you are, but given that you're asking the question here & the way you're asking leads me to believe you'd be much better off talking to a professional about it.
I don't want to rain on your parade, but to claim you're a Discord alternative is like saying a box is a an alternative to a luxury resort. You've got a lot of work to do before being a Discord alternative.
Elizabeth Holmes & others, you should be taking note. As the left showed when parading around with war criminal Dick Cheney, all you have to do for them to celebrate you as an amazing innocent person is have a spat with Musk or say you oppose Trump.
They're so predictable & easy to manipulate. They have been trained so well by MSM & the lefty cult bots that you know exactly how to get then to believe what you want. Just loudly proclaim how a MAGA friend of yours believes something, and they'll believe the opposite.
Now is your opportunity to do something. Boycott any company that enables this, divest any money you can that could make it into theirs hands, and call for sanctions or explore ways to enact your own. If you don't stand up for humanity now, then who will stand for you?
Maybe she is the type that when he cheats she claims to be strong while immediately changing her appearance & posting nonstop pictures on social media of all the "fun" she is having without him while making sure to tag him in every one.
No you're not wrong for wanting to keep your dad in your life. Any reputable family counselor would say your mom shouldn't be asking you to pick a side. Your mom does need support though, but it isn't your job. What your dad did sounds really hurtful to her, as it would be for most people. Maybe he is your best friend, but being a parent is more than being a friend. It means being a role model & wanting to teach things like honesty & respect, especially for the people you're supposed to love.
Has your dad offered to pay for counseling for you to process these things & talk to a professional about? It sounds like you could probably use it. I don't know how old you are, but given that you're asking the question here & the way you're asking leads me to believe you'd be much better off talking to a professional about it.