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  • More important:

    Do they sink or float?

  • I wouldn't expect them to actually show good trigger discipline.

  • It's tricky to get an abusive narcissist out of your head. They have a way of living there.

    No joke! That's been the worst!

    I'm glad you still have her around, and the chance to share time without the negatives.

    I am. My 21 year old daughter has been evidence that I'm doing something ok despite, and it's amazing.

    One of the most healing things so far has been the fact that I can look back and feel confident that I was right every time I thought "this feels like it is wrong and should be different". My daughter still finds me regularly for spontaneous hugs and any time something needs fixing that she hadn't figured out yet.

    I hope you find a similar chance. It's deserved.

  • Solidarity. I can say that from the other side of that coin, it's not always better... Divorced when I was 12, I told my mother "about fucking time" and got slapped.

    My single mother later destroyed my teenage years and 20s. She died and it took 10 years for the financial fraud to fall away. I'm still working to escape damage from her extorting and manipulating me by threatening to accuse me of molesting my daughter with several of her friends willing to lie to police.

    I hope you at least came away with positives to build with.

  • I flat celebrated my father's death. The upside was he instilled equality of gender well, and considering the 80s that wasn't common around middle USA.

    Father's Day is complex for me. Balancing my adult daughter bringing it for me vs memories of mine takes effort.

  • Switched to melons

  • Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up...

  • Why should 40 assholes hiding from someone who is already in custody gave any bearing on his case?

    My gf dyed her hair last week, must be a criminal in chains somewhere!

  • No ideas for a solution, but welcome!

  • Is there a way to send a flaming dildo at mach 3 via the telephone? Asking for a friend.

    ... The friend is me.

  • Not sure about your area, but a wireguard accessible OOB connection is a great piece of kit to keep handy. I use a cheap 768kbps SIM in an Ethernet connected switch into my personal systems. It's saved my skin numerous times.

    I'm sure this is obvious, especially in hindsight, but just mentioning because the existence of IoT LTE data plans for a minimal fee ( $100/year for me in Midwest US) was NOT obvious to me until 2 years ago.

  • Sending positive vibes, and passing offer of technical assistance once you get access again.

    Hopefully it's an easy fix once you get into things again.