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  • Protip for when you need help moving:

    • Set and communicate a date well in advance, ideally as soon as you sign the new lease.
    • Ask 3x as many people as you think you'll need.
    • Have everything packed when they arrive.
    • Only fill boxes with heavy stuff half-way.
    • And make absolutely sure there's food and drink available at all times.
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  • Unpopular opinion: Your kids do not actually have freedom if you're tracking them.
    Even if it is "just for emergencies" and "we don't actually look at it".
    I enjoyed a completely untracked childhood, and I will make damn sure my kids can have that too.
    Just knowing that your parents trust you is a priceless feeling.

  • I clicked on the first link to the options appendix and noped right the fuck out.
    That's a level of involvement I reserve for activities where I either get paid 100€+/h, or otherwise support my family.

    And from what I hear, the main selling point of NixOS is how easy it is to reinstall.
    Which I don't do more than once every couple of years.
    And then I click "next" a bunch of times on Debian, and copy /home over from my backup.

  • Stay with her. Supporting you without understanding what the fuck it is you're doing is a huge green flag for a lasting relationship/marriage.
    Also, reflect on how you can give her the same support, with things where you don't know or understand her struggle.

  • Open communication is a must. Ask your wife. She's the only person who can tell you that.
    But don't ask in a way that makes it her responsibility to solve this issue.

    The initiative to fix your relationship must come from you now. Don't make her ask or wonder.
    You have to do the work now, and hope that's enough for her.

    A good first step would be a shared calendar where you input all of your appointments, activities, meetings with friends, etc.
    Just to show her you aren't hiding anything.
    She can use it for her schedules, too. But that's her decision.